"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fb groups I see for females looking for roomates rooms.

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That's entirely possible, Pierce. Telepathy not being among my fortes, there's a hard limit to how much I can accurately gauge such things. The kids have been going gaga over these things called Google and Wikipedia though.... They(The kids, that is) claim that if we stumble across a name or word we're unfamiliar with, all we have to do is type that name or word into a search engine, and voila


Everything we need to know crops up, faster than a hooker from the favelas of Rio infects her latest client with a nasty case of The Clap
That presumes people care enough to fire up a search and read to find the reference, which I’d wager, most do not. Make it easy on your audience.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That presumes people care enough to fire up a search and read to find the reference, which I’d wager, most do not

Sad for them. They're passing up the opportunity to end the day a little bit more knowledgeable than they were upon getting out of bed that morning
 

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Couldn't a man get arrested for accepting sex instead of rent money, at least in the US? I would think it could be considered prostitution! I wouldn't mess with that!
In theory no, but in reality, she's gonna claim he offered it 1st, so you would have to prove it was her idea, not yours.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi BDE,
While I was scrimping and saving to buy my few acres,I rented rooms in my place,having had a lifetime experience renting investment houses out,I rarely allowed single Women in,from bitter experience they find it demeaning to do Housework and you can't heavy them,they can do no wrong,inevitably a Boy Friend turns up and that means trouble,trouble....Neither would I have any Man in the place who if he turned nasty,I couldn't handle.
 

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Got a bum education, double digit inflation...
Cant take the train to my job, there's a strike at the station...
 

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Well, thanks for not putting me up then. :rolleyes:
Hi Amsterdam,
If you drop by to check the place out,bring your Catapault,Soo many Bunnies....I purchased a "Barnett Black Widow" sling shot from the US at your suggestion but can never hit them....The Road kills keep my slow cooker full and plenty for the Old Dog too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here is example of them on these groups. I'd love them living with me!

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Amazing some of these young hb8s and up are on it. This one in Tampa. If my house was in the Tampa area I'd offer her a cheap cheap room!

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Amazing some of these young hb8s and up are on it. This one in Tampa. If my house was in the Tampa area I'd offer her a cheap cheap room!

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Your desperation is comparable to that of these broads https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-gloucestershire-57182844.amp , during the final minutes they spent in Fred and Rosemary's clutches. Only difference being: Those chicks were desperate to continue drawing breath, and to one day enjoy sunny bourgeoisie existences of their own, filled with kids, husbands, and ritzy homes in the suburbs


You're just desperate for a slice of ass, so much so that a barely 5 like that seems delicious to you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I had a friend that owned an auto repair shop, and every few months there was a woman that would want to trade sex for a cheaper repair bill.
I once tried exchanging my services in wiping a chick's hard drive - but she didn't sound interested. :mad:
 

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I think the real goal of SS is to get better with women in general.

TBF I went thru my post divorce midlife crisis (actually my enjoyable rebirth with women) in my 40's and was all about the young things for a few years, but that got tired for me fairly quick as I didn't like to do a lot of the things they like to do, or go thru the changes young folks go thru at that age.

It even got to the point where I dumped or just blew off a few young cuties because they were too young for what I was looking for. I would for example rather hang with a lady in her 30's to 40's at a Jazz club or R&B show, than hang out at a HipHop club or Rave with a youngster.

But back on your OP, I still think it might be a little creepy to try to leverage real estate to get in bed with girls half your age.
I'm sure that trailer park managers do this all the time. :rolleyes:
 

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Groups for women, mainly college chicks and mid 20s looking to rent a room while in school or looking for a roommate.

I notice a lot of the girls are hb 7 to 8 range. I Inherited my mom's house and it's 4 bedroom. So let's say you rented it out to an hb7 or 8 22 year old college chick what are the chances of getting to bang her? I'm thinking like for rent reduction if she's tight on money one month like give her half off rent for banging you a few times a week. Would most college chicks do that to save money on rent?
I don't think the odds are in your favor that you could work out a sex for discounted rent arrangement with a female in the 7+, 24 and under age bracket.

I had a friend that owned an auto repair shop, and every few months there was a woman that would want to trade sex for a cheaper repair bill.
I'm able to envision that happening. It seems like a minority of auto repair situations. It would happen in a smaller shop.
 
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