"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fb groups I see for females looking for roomates rooms.

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Anyone else awe these groups popping up on their feed? Groups for women, mainly college chicks and mid 20s looking to rent a room while in school or looking for a roommate.

I notice a lot of the girls are hb 7 to 8 range. I Inherited my mom's house and it's 4 bedroom. So let's say you rented it out to an hb7 or 8 22 year old college chick what are the chances of getting to bang her? I'm thinking like for rent reduction if she's tight on money one month like give her half off rent for banging you a few times a week. Would most college chicks do that to save money on rent?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Op lets a girl live in his place to get laid. Op soon realizes that her daddy pays her rent and this girl has a Chad BF that’s always over making her scream. OP’s plan failed….THE END
There's a % of girls that have boyfriends on and off.
 

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I had a friend that owned an auto repair shop, and every few months there was a woman that would want to trade sex for a cheaper repair bill.
I'm guessing they knew each other beforehand?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not usually, unless she was a repeat customer.
I was Facebook friends with a hot large breasted White girl beach tan but into Hispanic dudes, her 2 kids were half Puerto Rican. She once posted on Facebook on how a car mechanic either did a service for free, or discounted price. But then I replied "he was a thirst bucket or was into you" and later when a female commenter replied "oh maybe I'm right" the girl replies "omg bye to both of you." Years later her next bf was a White dude but in a Black gang, with tats all over his face.
 

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This happened a lot in the UK about a decade or so ago. (older, wealthy men buying up lots of property in student cities and then exclusively renting it out to hot teenage female students after vetting what they look like on the application process with the intention of offering a 'sex for rent' policy)

It became such a common thing in student areas that after a number of 'sting' operations using pretty young female journalists posing as students, an 'incitement into prostitution' type law was basically introduced! lol )

I don't really care, though.

My only issue is that this sort of thing doesn't tend to work out how people think.

It reminds me of the rooshV forum back in the day. I can't remember what the sub-forum was called, but it was essentially for guys with money to work out how to use it to bang girls half their age and out of their league. Lots of threads were like of men buying bars with the intention of hiring hot 18 year olds girls to bang or start their own little modelling agency in the hope of banging extremely pretty teenagers etc. Essentially 'side businesses' where profit was basically irrelevant - But there wasn't usually any actual success stories for the men who did this from memory.

It's like they thought that by just being the boss (and now in contact with lots of hot young girls) it would now suddenly make it easy and would mean all of the girls would suddenly want him, but usually it just lead to frustration. Like, the boss of the bar is now starting threads like 'All of the cute dancers are all trying to bang the good looking bouncer/busboy instead of me! Advice??' or whatever lol

Not to mention it all just seemed so pointless to me. I'm assuming it's the same in most places, but you easily get very pretty 18 year old hookers if you just want to use your money to get laid! Doing the other stuff these guys were talking about seemed like such over-kill!!
 
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I was Facebook friends with a hot large breasted White girl beach tan but into Hispanic dudes, her 2 kids were half Puerto Rican. She once posted on Facebook on how a car mechanic either did a service for free, or discounted price. But then I replied "he was a thirst bucket or was into you" and later when a female commenter replied "oh maybe I'm right" the girl replies "omg bye to both of you." Years later her next bf was a White dude but in a Black gang, with tats all over his face.
Is there a moral to this story?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This thread sound so much like a sexual predator story on a crime TV show.

"40 yr old man lures women half his age into sex in exchange for housing."

Hope you have a good VPN if things go sour.
Lol. You're supposed to like younger women. That's the goal on ss to get younger women than yourself. Well these girls posting on Facebook to rent a room or looking for roommates always hb7 and all.
 

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Couldn't a man get arrested for accepting sex instead of rent money, at least in the US? I would think it could be considered prostitution! I wouldn't mess with that!
 

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Anyone else awe these groups popping up on their feed? Groups for women, mainly college chicks and mid 20s looking to rent a room while in school or looking for a roommate.

I notice a lot of the girls are hb 7 to 8 range. I Inherited my mom's house and it's 4 bedroom. So let's say you rented it out to an hb7 or 8 22 year old college chick what are the chances of getting to bang her? I'm thinking like for rent reduction if she's tight on money one month like give her half off rent for banging you a few times a week. Would most college chicks do that to save money on rent?
Sounds kinda creepy to me tbh.

Female room mates/tenants are nothing by trouble by the way. I tried it and will never to do again.
 

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Lol. You're supposed to like younger women. That's the goal on ss to get younger women than yourself. Well these girls posting on Facebook to rent a room or looking for roommates always hb7 and all.
I think the real goal of SS is to get better with women in general.

TBF I went thru my post divorce midlife crisis (actually my enjoyable rebirth with women) in my 40's and was all about the young things for a few years, but that got tired for me fairly quick as I didn't like to do a lot of the things they like to do, or go thru the changes young folks go thru at that age.

It even got to the point where I dumped or just blew off a few young cuties because they were too young for what I was looking for. I would for example rather hang with a lady in her 30's to 40's at a Jazz club or R&B show, than hang out at a HipHop club or Rave with a youngster.

But back on your OP, I still think it might be a little creepy to try to leverage real estate to get in bed with girls half your age.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So let's say you rented it out to an hb7 or 8 22 year old college chick what are the chances of getting to bang her?
Quite strong, IF you're a married man, and you and the missus have resolved to be contemporary versions of Fred and Rosemary West
 

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I think the real goal of SS is to get better with women in general.

TBF I went thru my post divorce midlife crisis (actually my enjoyable rebirth with women) in my 40's and was all about the young things for a few years, but that got tired for me fairly quick as I didn't like to do a lot of the things they like to do, or go thru the changes young folks go thru at that age.

It even got to the point where I dumped or just blew off a few young cuties because they were too young for what I was looking for. I would for example rather hang with a lady in her 30's to 40's at a Jazz club or R&B show, than hang out at a HipHop club or Rave with a youngster.

But back on your OP, I still think it might be a little creepy to try to leverage real estate to get in bed with girls half your age.
I'm always reading on here guys in their 40s complaining they can't get girls in their 20s.
 

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Quite strong, IF you're a married man, and you and the missus have resolved to be contemporary versions of Fred and Rosemary West
Seriously the references you make probably are unintelligible to a large number of folks here. It makes any of your posts basically meaningless. Do you really expect people to go search who you’re referring to?

If you care about actually getting your point across would you consider just spelling out what you mean instead of referring to something or somebody many of us have zero knowledge of?
 

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Seriously the references you make probably are unintelligible to a large number of folks here
That's entirely possible, Pierce. Telepathy not being among my fortes, there's a hard limit to how much I can accurately gauge such things. The kids have been going gaga over these things called Google and Wikipedia though.... They(The kids, that is) claim that if we stumble across a name or word we're unfamiliar with, all we have to do is type that name or word into a search engine, and voila


Everything we need to know crops up, faster than a hooker from the favelas of Rio infects her latest client with a nasty case of The Clap
 

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I had a friend that owned an auto repair shop, and every few months there was a woman that would want to trade sex for a cheaper repair bill.

When you next speak to him, ask if he'll be playing in Ft Lauderdale anytime soon ;) :cool:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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