ThisIsSparta
Master Don Juan
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Id say you got to have an opinion if you are so strongly advocating for Tksnipers referrings.Anyway, I highly doubt that this^^ is what @tksniper and @BeExcellent and others who agreed were referring to.
That's not being 'vulnerable,' that's needy and desperate AF and a gross exaggeration/hyperbole. Not to mention, plain stupid.
So.... if you think i am exaggerating, what emotions EXACTLY are you referring to that should be shared.
And yes it is about you and your background when people ask your opinion and the practical value of it.
You know, we have quite a lot of relationship experts here that have actually never lived with a woman under one roof.
Telling a woman that i´d strive to be a successfull entreprenour to become a great provider for my future family because my uncle wasnt and that i want to become a tri-athlete amateur champion because my father died of obesity is hardly "emotional honesty and vulnerability". Things like that are basic conversation for date 1, 2 or 3.You don’t drivel to your woman. That’s not what vulnerability is. That’s just drama and not even your mother (if she’s worth her salt) is going to tolerate that. Vulnerability is more sharing who you are, your true motivations, your thoughts, dreams & goals. It’s who you really are, and yes, how you got there factors into it of course, but it’s more what you are about, what you need to improve to get there, and it’s all the associated human ness therein.