SW15
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Take a second screen cap next time. Otherwise, this is some 5'6" woman asking for 5'11"+.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Fun posting ridiculous OLD profile screenshots
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Damaged goods and not hot to boot
Pierce Manhammer
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I only do if the pics hook.
I_have_BDE
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Same. I do read them if I see a long profile and the girl looks ugly or damaged just to see their demands.
The few hot girls I see on OLD usually are older, maybe post wall. Yes, older but it seems a lot of pre wall women are fatties they use OLD because they're not approached a lot. A hot 37 year old is better than a fat 25 year old.
Post wall women who look crazy looking have like 3 pages of demands. If she's hot looking too that tells me she's way too demanding and she drives guys away and must resort to using OLD.
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This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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$10 says she's Italian. Ask her.This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.
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I guess anyone can be a model. I mean you have plus size models. Also none of her pics showed her smile. Thats a red flag for bad teeth.
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Or a Catholic. Latinas are also fond of doing the "frozen face" thing. It's because she doesn't want to show desire, she'll go to hell or be socially shamed or something. If she was a straight white girl and not exotic looking, then yes it would likely be the teeth. But why can't she at least curl the corners of her mouth?
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I think this one might be one of those green card scammers. Listed she speaks russian, spanish, and lived all over Europe and russia. Was texting with this russian for awhile in my area.
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If they don't smile, don't engage with them. Imo frozen face women are worse than the crazy-eyed and resting-b1tch face women, because they're used to getting away with fooling guys about their lack of compliance issues. The crazy-eyed and resting-b-faced women don't get the same engagement level because it's more obvious what you're dealing with as a guy.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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She has the same set of chromosomes that I have.This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.
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She is not impressive looking at all. @I_have_BDE is 40 years old and lives in an area with a high median age.This one sent me a message last week and said to post an "unfiltered" pic lol. She also lists herself as a "model" on her profile.
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Looks almost like a guy in her pic!
Pierce Manhammer
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So to dispel the idea that women don’t pay for Tinder - this chick is paying for Select, which I believe is $500/month
FlexpertHamilton
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You can just tell from her face she's a delusionsal psycho, probably narcissist. All of her "green flags" are actually horse**** that someone else can translate if they feel so inclined.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Pierce Manhammer
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Bet its the one on the right? I'd also posit that it's her sister to the left. She has methuselah eyebrows which means a ton of botox, badly applied, and possibly has had work done on her face. The sister is what she'd look like if she wasn't psycho.
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This woman doesn't have to though if she put some effort into making herself appealing. Looks like she wants to pay for Select in lieu of actually putting forth an effort. The passive facial expression, smirk, dead eyes and lack of makeup all speak to this. I imagine this is SF, although the pic looks like NYC.
For FFS though that money she spends towards Select should be saved for a nosejob.
Pierce Manhammer
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The thirst is real. A 65 yo complaining about young men hitting her up, I totally believe it. What’s the world coming to? Wall? What wall?
I remember young guys complaining about older men going after their target age women, meanwhile they’re hitting up 65yo’s.
I remember young guys complaining about older men going after their target age women, meanwhile they’re hitting up 65yo’s.
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This is astounding. Why would men under 40 or even under 50 be initiating contact with a 65 year old woman? I would expect 65+ men to start interactions with her.
It seems like it would stink to be 65 and on Bumble looking for penis.
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My sister is in her 40's and often has guys in their 20's hit on her. I've witnessed it in person several times.
Just because you think one way doesn't mean the opposite doesn't happen on a regular basis.
It's really anything goes out there.
If she has a pu$$y there will always be some guy wanting to get in it. Like it or not, That's a fact boys.
Just because you think one way doesn't mean the opposite doesn't happen on a regular basis.
It's really anything goes out there.
If she has a pu$$y there will always be some guy wanting to get in it. Like it or not, That's a fact boys.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.