"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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soulforge

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I had a somewhat similar situation with my ex (no drugs involved) however she went out drinking with her hoe freind, they both got extremely drunk. At the end of the night, my ex called a male friend who is twice there age, to come pick them up.

Two attractive drunk girls, getting inside some dudes car late at night.. We all know the male friend has the perfect opportunity to fuk.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DROPTOP_GTA

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This sounds like something a teenager would do. I guess if you are young this is kinda normal? Maybe find some good sativa, the kind that arouses. You become the provider and get her baked in your bed. If she still wants to hang out with stoner guy it more than weed she is taking.
 

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Your girl doesn't respect you bro. Sorry.

No decent woman is hanging out in another dudes bedroom, nevermind being literally in his bed.
This. Not only hanging in another dudes bedroom, but getting intoxicated in his room.

In my world, this would be an instant dump type situation.
 

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This sounds like something a teenager would do. I guess if you are young this is kinda normal? Maybe find some good sativa, the kind that arouses. You become the provider and get her baked in your bed. If she still wants to hang out with stoner guy it more than weed she is taking.
This is terrible advice.

OP should not be dating a pot head. Nothing good will come of it, especially if he is intending to have something long term with her.

As for her being young? If she is between age 22-25 she should be seriously considering getting into relationship and starting a family... Not getting stoned in some losers bedroom.
 

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I would keep stoner chick on the side. Pot turns some girls into insatiable nymphos. If this arrangement doesn't work out…happy hunting you go.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This sounds like something a teenager would do. I guess if you are young this is kinda normal? Maybe find some good sativa, the kind that arouses. You become the provider and get her baked in your bed. If she still wants to hang out with stoner guy it more than weed she is taking.
She's in her 40's..smfh
 

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This is terrible advice

As for her being young? If she is between age 22-25 she should be seriously considering getting into relationship and starting a family... Not getting stoned in some losers bedroom.
This^^^ she's in her freaking 40s!!
 

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Guys this lady is in her 40's pullin this b.s. ..hence why I'm freaking shocked..
 

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So am I wrong...
For thinking that we could be something for real?

Now am I wrong...
For trying to reach the things that I can't see?

But that's just how I feel, that's just how I feel...

That's just how I feel...
trying to reach the things that I can't see
 

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Me: "Would you have intercourse an unknown guy for a thousand euro?"
She: "No, what do you think of me?"
Me: "How about ten thousand euro?"
She: "Well, I wouldn't want someone to think I'm a wh0re."
Me: "We already established that, we're just talking price now."
Her saying "No" doesn't work as well as the original :

Churchill: Madam, would you sleep with me for £1 million?
Woman: Why Winston, yes I would.
Churchill: What about £10?
Woman: What sort of woman do you think I am?
Churchill: We have already established what sort of woman you are, now we are just negotiating the price.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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