"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asian women are a different breed

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Once you go Asian you can't go back to naggy white women.
I don't know about that. Asian women that grow up in the West seem to be even more "naggy" than white women (maybe even more so because of insecurity issues). And don't even get me started on FOBs (we have a large Chinese foreign student population here). Most of them are obviously from well-to-do-families (it costs a sh!tload of money to send your kids to study in North America) but they act like they are from another planet. Their culture is just so different. Most of their women aren't much to look at either. I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from. That's not to say their aren't any attractive Asian women out there. But the vast majority of those I see out and about clearly do not fall into that category.
 
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I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from.
San Diego and San Francisco. That's where it comes from - lack of good realistic options, due to crap women (SF) or heavy competition (SD). Probably Seattle too for the same reasons as SF. You can thank feminism (of course) and the US Gov't's silly habit of overloading certain cities with military bases.
 

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San Diego and San Francisco. That's where it comes from - lack of good realistic options, due to crap women (SF) or heavy competition (SD). Probably Seattle too for the same reasons as SF. You can thank feminism (of course) and the US Gov't's silly habit of overloading certain cities with military bases.
If you think that the reason you are not successful is because military bases says a lot about those who think this

If this was true why there would be so many jokes about military dudes not getting laid or being cheated by their dead beat gf/wife?

I grew up in a city where it was and still is a big military base. There was joke among girls that if no boys would want them they will just marry a military guy. All the women I know from my social circle that got into a LTR or marriage with a military guy ( mostly officers ) had to choose between the military guy or a red neck

This is quite self explanatory what most girls think about most army men
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from.
I think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.

Combine that with they are from another country and have an exotic accent and feel, men get easily seduced.
 

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I think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.

Combine that with they are from another country and have an exotic accent and feel, men get easily seduced.
But still not as sexy as white women, even in her 30s or even 40s if she takes good care of herself :)
 

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Of course not, what are these people thinking?

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Not what you see in the vast majority of cases. Closer to unrealistic expectations more than anything, unless you live in the Meta universe

I can easily post some pictures with some sexy trans guys by your line of thinking, and call you gay for finding them attractive

I am also inclining more and more to label you as a troll or just a senile grandpa :)

The vast majority of your posts bring little to no value to the threads or anything informative altogether
 

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I'm starting to think also he's the dirty ugly grandpa who is always thinking about fvcking young girls, cause of of all his posts is with a woman tied or a very sexy one with very nice attributes, so fvcking thirsty.
Na man, most likely he is one of the schyzofrenic banned guys that keeps making accounts :)

If he indeed was someone with experience, he would have had more interesting things to say after these many years of extra experience. But he is far away from that

Tying all those many sexy young women and still having time to write all these infinite and meaningless posts here … things just do not add up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you think that the reason you are not successful is because military bases says a lot about those who think this

If this was true why there would be so many jokes about military dudes not getting laid or being cheated by their dead beat gf/wife?

I grew up in a city where it was and still is a big military base. There was joke among girls that if no boys would want them they will just marry a military guy. All the women I know from my social circle that got into a LTR or marriage with a military guy ( mostly officers ) had to choose between the military guy or a red neck

This is quite self explanatory what most girls think about most army men
Reaching hard to prop yourself up man...

as usual.

Why do you call yourself "BigPapa" if you're not compensating for something?

Lolz

inb4 tired "incel" comment.

I had sex with 60+ women in the military town but many of my friends dated asian girls due to the competition. I never had to.

Where I live now I get more attention from women despite being older because there aren't a dozen large military bases here.

That's why I made that comment

So again, why do you always seem to need to prop yourself up?

It's not my fault or anyone else's you grew up poor in a 3rd world country and hate Americans.

Welcome to my ignore list, Little B. The used to be only BeExcellent, now you are the 2nd.
 
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Hi Flexpert,
Don't feel put off by your responses....In my experience Mainland Chinese Women are Gods gift to Western Man....Mao Tze Dong had it right when he told Henry Kissinger that the best way to improve relations with the US would be to send 10 million Single Women across to them.....I once had three Mainland Chinese Women Students living with me,they used to make Chinese Dumplings on Sundays,coming down the stairs to the sound of their chatter like Temple Bells,the spicy garlic smells....these are memories I shall always cherish.
 
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I think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.
I've always been attracted to Asian women. Like you say, they age better than white women, so even if they're older, they often still look attractive. Also, those that I have talked to seem to have a pleasant disposition, maybe they take more stock in being polite. Also like the skin tone, it's kind of like a white girl with a nice tan. Even the less attractive ones can still look exotic. If there's a downside (let's be fair), it seems like some haven't had good dental care, depending on where they come from (like the Phillipines, even though I like Filipinas).

I remember I was teasing one Filipina woman and she didn't understand and got kind of offended. Didn't understand our American ways, I guess. I felt kind of bad about that and afterward I flirted with her heavily and treated her like gold, so I made up for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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But did you sample their shumai? If not, why?

Hi Flexpert,
Don't feel put off by your responses....In my experience Mainland Chinese Women are Gods gift to Western Man....Mao Tze Dong had it right when he told Henry Kissinger that the best way to improve relations with the US would be to send 10 million Single Women across to them.....I once had three Mainland Chinese Women Students living with me,they used to make Chinese Dumplings on Sundays,coming down the stairs to the sound of their chatter like Temple Bells,the spicy garlic smells....these are memories I shall always cherish.
 

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Hi Pierce,
Yes like several others here,I am a Shubai Bandit for life...But these young Ladies were my Daughters age!...One of them had her Mother come and stay for a fortnight,she just loved helping in my Vegetable Garden a really stunning Lady...The daughter popped by only a year or so ago,wanted to show me some Fruit Trees she had purchased and have a chat,she very subtly put it on the line if I wanted it,but no I didn't....For you being a younger more virile man,you haven't reached an age to fully appreciate the value of a Tight Pvussy,sadly for me to fully come,that and the Shanghai Squeeze are dire necessities...True!
 

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Hi Zecko,
Some years ago an English acquaintence came to visit, like me over the years he has lost his accent...After his departure my Daughter asked,who was my Pommy Mate? I asked her how she knew he was a Pommy?...Simples she said,he insulted you endlessly in his conversation and you both pvissed yourselves laughing...But Lads,Never under any circumstances do this to an Asian Woman....I would also oberve that they seemingly have No sense of the Hypothetical either....On the brighter side,they simply cannot grasp the essential tenets of Feminism!
 

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Reaching hard to prop yourself up man...

as usual.

Why do you call yourself "BigPapa" if you're not compensating for something?

Lolz

inb4 tired "incel" comment.

I had sex with 60+ women in the military town but many of my friends dated asian girls due to the competition. I never had to.

Where I live now I get more attention from women despite being older because there aren't a dozen large military bases here.

That's why I made that comment

So again, why do you always seem to need to prop yourself up?

It's not my fault or anyone else's you grew up poor in a 3rd world country and hate Americans.

Welcome to my ignore list, Little B. The used to be only BeExcellent, now you are the 2nd.
Amazing solo argument, picking up on someone based on where he was born. Especially from a guy that “defends” women from other countries

This is called being a hypocrite and a bigot

Yeah right, 60+ women. How many of those are prostitutes?

Everyone here is a ladies man, and whoever does not agree with this is a bad man :)
 
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Asian women are usually more agreeable, affectionate, and submissive, it's bred into them. I don't care about submissiveness too much , but I adore agreeable and empathetic women who don't give you headaches and these qualities are completely lacking in most modern western women. Also, all Asian women that I've been with are freaky in bed and get insanely turned on but not in a slutty or manic sort of way.

A few generations of living in America and they can turn into a typical American, but if they are 1st gen, maybe 2nd gen, adopted, they're likely to retain many their qualities.

All that said I've never had an LTR with an Asian so who knows what that looks like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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