FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
Once you go Asian you can't go back to naggy white women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know about that. Asian women that grow up in the West seem to be even more "naggy" than white women (maybe even more so because of insecurity issues). And don't even get me started on FOBs (we have a large Chinese foreign student population here). Most of them are obviously from well-to-do-families (it costs a sh!tload of money to send your kids to study in North America) but they act like they are from another planet. Their culture is just so different. Most of their women aren't much to look at either. I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from. That's not to say their aren't any attractive Asian women out there. But the vast majority of those I see out and about clearly do not fall into that category.Once you go Asian you can't go back to naggy white women.
San Diego and San Francisco. That's where it comes from - lack of good realistic options, due to crap women (SF) or heavy competition (SD). Probably Seattle too for the same reasons as SF. You can thank feminism (of course) and the US Gov't's silly habit of overloading certain cities with military bases.I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from.
If you think that the reason you are not successful is because military bases says a lot about those who think thisSan Diego and San Francisco. That's where it comes from - lack of good realistic options, due to crap women (SF) or heavy competition (SD). Probably Seattle too for the same reasons as SF. You can thank feminism (of course) and the US Gov't's silly habit of overloading certain cities with military bases.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.I don't know where this whole yellow fever thing is coming from.
But still not as sexy as white women, even in her 30s or even 40s if she takes good care of herselfI think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.
Combine that with they are from another country and have an exotic accent and feel, men get easily seduced.
Why so?Worst were Koreans
Not what you see in the vast majority of cases. Closer to unrealistic expectations more than anything, unless you live in the Meta universe
Na man, most likely he is one of the schyzofrenic banned guys that keeps making accountsI'm starting to think also he's the dirty ugly grandpa who is always thinking about fvcking young girls, cause of of all his posts is with a woman tied or a very sexy one with very nice attributes, so fvcking thirsty.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Asian women are just better at hiding their true nature until they have you in their bag (i.e., marriage). All women are the same.Once you go Asian you can't go back to naggy white women.
Once married, Asian wives control the finance in the household. You'll need permission if you want to buy that Happy Meal for lunch at McDonaldsSo, stay out of their bags. I agree, Asian women might come across as more compliant, but there's a reason the Tiger Mom is Chinese.
Reaching hard to prop yourself up man...If you think that the reason you are not successful is because military bases says a lot about those who think this
If this was true why there would be so many jokes about military dudes not getting laid or being cheated by their dead beat gf/wife?
I grew up in a city where it was and still is a big military base. There was joke among girls that if no boys would want them they will just marry a military guy. All the women I know from my social circle that got into a LTR or marriage with a military guy ( mostly officers ) had to choose between the military guy or a red neck
This is quite self explanatory what most girls think about most army men
I've always been attracted to Asian women. Like you say, they age better than white women, so even if they're older, they often still look attractive. Also, those that I have talked to seem to have a pleasant disposition, maybe they take more stock in being polite. Also like the skin tone, it's kind of like a white girl with a nice tan. Even the less attractive ones can still look exotic. If there's a downside (let's be fair), it seems like some haven't had good dental care, depending on where they come from (like the Phillipines, even though I like Filipinas).I think it comes from they generally look younger / age better than white woman.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hi Flexpert,
Don't feel put off by your responses....In my experience Mainland Chinese Women are Gods gift to Western Man....Mao Tze Dong had it right when he told Henry Kissinger that the best way to improve relations with the US would be to send 10 million Single Women across to them.....I once had three Mainland Chinese Women Students living with me,they used to make Chinese Dumplings on Sundays,coming down the stairs to the sound of their chatter like Temple Bells,the spicy garlic smells....these are memories I shall always cherish.
Amazing solo argument, picking up on someone based on where he was born. Especially from a guy that “defends” women from other countriesReaching hard to prop yourself up man...
as usual.
Why do you call yourself "BigPapa" if you're not compensating for something?
Lolz
inb4 tired "incel" comment.
I had sex with 60+ women in the military town but many of my friends dated asian girls due to the competition. I never had to.
Where I live now I get more attention from women despite being older because there aren't a dozen large military bases here.
That's why I made that comment
So again, why do you always seem to need to prop yourself up?
It's not my fault or anyone else's you grew up poor in a 3rd world country and hate Americans.
Welcome to my ignore list, Little B. The used to be only BeExcellent, now you are the 2nd.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.