MatureDJ
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There Are Many Solutions to the Homelessness Crisis. Not Everyone Is Going to Like This One.
There's a good reason to take it seriously.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.There is a need for homeless people to have sex. It doesn't get talked about much. Women are rarely homeless as much as men are homeless. It can be tough for a homeless man to get laid. Many years ago, this homeless man in New York City was getting laid more regularly than a lot of tech workers....
Things did not end up well for this homeless man. In 2023, he is still homeless and now he's in Las Vegas....
More and more non-homeless men are incel but there are fewer sympathy pieces on it.
A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed.If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed.![]()
A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed.Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.
Bro I didn’t know you in Alberta. I’m in calgaryIf they can't sell you profitable medication they don't give a **** is kind of the bottom line, in Alberta, Canada, where I'm from for example they have basically abolished institutionalizing except in the most extreme cases, as a result our homeless population has been growing, but after Covid it outright exploded, Covid would simply circulate throughout the shelters without end.
Now it's getting to the point where people don't want to ride on public transportation because that's where all these people congregate, you'll be on the train and some guy will light up a cigarette or smoke crack and all the old and young people just stare at me as if I'm supposed to do something, the institutions have failed and they look to the public individual to deal with these things on a case by case basis, so you either get stabbed or emasculated.
Its ridiculous being a man out here, I'm grappling with my own stuff as it is, who needs this on top.
Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed.![]()
I literally messaged you about being here like 2 years ago or something lol I just took a hiatus from the forum after being banned for being so handsomeBro I didn’t know you in Alberta. I’m in calgary
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed.![]()
Yes, that's the reason that the only young homeless women you see are the severely drugged out; the rest of them have found a "home" - at the very least a pimp would give her a place to stay.It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.
Yes, a chick could go live in a shelter, or find some guy she doesn't mind servicing. You will admit that a man's home will almost always be better than a shelter.Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?
I don’t recal. That’s wildI literally messaged you about being here like 2 years ago or something lol I just took a hiatus from the forum after being banned for being so handsome
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to sex.I think the unsaid assumption is that any ‘housed’ person can get sFx.
I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to
The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.
Most of my social circle are Black pilled. That includes the married guys.The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.
My main social circle has a blue pill ideology towards romantic relationships. When I think of most of the people I've met in-person, I am unable to identify many people with red or black pill ideologies towards relationships.