"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Woke-Industrial Complex says it OK for non-homeless men to be Incel, but it's crisis when homeless men are

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is a need for homeless people to have sex. It doesn't get talked about much. Women are rarely homeless as much as men are homeless. It can be tough for a homeless man to get laid. Many years ago, this homeless man in New York City was getting laid more regularly than a lot of tech workers....


Things did not end up well for this homeless man. In 2023, he is still homeless and now he's in Las Vegas....


More and more non-homeless men are incel but there are fewer sympathy pieces on it.
 

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If they can't sell you profitable medication they don't give a **** is kind of the bottom line, in Alberta, Canada, where I'm from for example they have basically abolished institutionalizing except in the most extreme cases, as a result our homeless population has been growing, but after Covid it outright exploded, Covid would simply circulate throughout the shelters without end.

Now it's getting to the point where people don't want to ride on public transportation because that's where all these people congregate, you'll be on the train and some guy will light up a cigarette or smoke crack and all the old and young people just stare at me as if I'm supposed to do something, the institutions have failed and they look to the public individual to deal with these things on a case by case basis, so you either get stabbed or emasculated.

Its ridiculous being a man out here, I'm grappling with my own stuff as it is, who needs this on top.
 

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There is a need for homeless people to have sex. It doesn't get talked about much. Women are rarely homeless as much as men are homeless. It can be tough for a homeless man to get laid. Many years ago, this homeless man in New York City was getting laid more regularly than a lot of tech workers....


Things did not end up well for this homeless man. In 2023, he is still homeless and now he's in Las Vegas....


More and more non-homeless men are incel but there are fewer sympathy pieces on it.
If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.
 

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If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.
A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.
 

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Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.
A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed. :rolleyes:
 

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If they can't sell you profitable medication they don't give a **** is kind of the bottom line, in Alberta, Canada, where I'm from for example they have basically abolished institutionalizing except in the most extreme cases, as a result our homeless population has been growing, but after Covid it outright exploded, Covid would simply circulate throughout the shelters without end.

Now it's getting to the point where people don't want to ride on public transportation because that's where all these people congregate, you'll be on the train and some guy will light up a cigarette or smoke crack and all the old and young people just stare at me as if I'm supposed to do something, the institutions have failed and they look to the public individual to deal with these things on a case by case basis, so you either get stabbed or emasculated.

Its ridiculous being a man out here, I'm grappling with my own stuff as it is, who needs this on top.
Bro I didn’t know you in Alberta. I’m in calgary
 

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A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed. :rolleyes:
Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.
 

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It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.
Yes, that's the reason that the only young homeless women you see are the severely drugged out; the rest of them have found a "home" - at the very least a pimp would give her a place to stay. :rolleyes:
 

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Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?
Yes, a chick could go live in a shelter, or find some guy she doesn't mind servicing. You will admit that a man's home will almost always be better than a shelter.
 

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I think the unsaid assumption is that any ‘housed’ person can get sFx. So. The homeless can’t get sFx because they are homeless.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think the unsaid assumption is that any ‘housed’ person can get sFx.
There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to sex.

Neil Strauss was a prominent journalist who was lacking access to sex despite being 'housed'. Then, he started to spend time with Mystery and other PUAs and learned how to seduce despite baldness and being 5'6". Strauss did exceptionally well as a student. Most PUA students don't have the results Strauss had.
 

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There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to
I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.
 

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I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.
The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.

My main social circle has a blue pill ideology towards romantic relationships. When I think of most of the people I've met in-person, I am unable to identify many people with red or black pill ideologies towards relationships.
 

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The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.

My main social circle has a blue pill ideology towards romantic relationships. When I think of most of the people I've met in-person, I am unable to identify many people with red or black pill ideologies towards relationships.
Most of my social circle are Black pilled. That includes the married guys.
 
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