"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Woke-Industrial Complex says it OK for non-homeless men to be Incel, but it's crisis when homeless men are

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is a need for homeless people to have sex. It doesn't get talked about much. Women are rarely homeless as much as men are homeless. It can be tough for a homeless man to get laid. Many years ago, this homeless man in New York City was getting laid more regularly than a lot of tech workers....


Things did not end up well for this homeless man. In 2023, he is still homeless and now he's in Las Vegas....


More and more non-homeless men are incel but there are fewer sympathy pieces on it.
 

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If they can't sell you profitable medication they don't give a **** is kind of the bottom line, in Alberta, Canada, where I'm from for example they have basically abolished institutionalizing except in the most extreme cases, as a result our homeless population has been growing, but after Covid it outright exploded, Covid would simply circulate throughout the shelters without end.

Now it's getting to the point where people don't want to ride on public transportation because that's where all these people congregate, you'll be on the train and some guy will light up a cigarette or smoke crack and all the old and young people just stare at me as if I'm supposed to do something, the institutions have failed and they look to the public individual to deal with these things on a case by case basis, so you either get stabbed or emasculated.

Its ridiculous being a man out here, I'm grappling with my own stuff as it is, who needs this on top.
 

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There is a need for homeless people to have sex. It doesn't get talked about much. Women are rarely homeless as much as men are homeless. It can be tough for a homeless man to get laid. Many years ago, this homeless man in New York City was getting laid more regularly than a lot of tech workers....


Things did not end up well for this homeless man. In 2023, he is still homeless and now he's in Las Vegas....


More and more non-homeless men are incel but there are fewer sympathy pieces on it.
If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.
 

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If you are in a shelter system then you are homeless. Women may have better access and protection being homeless compared to guys but make no mistake, with the high cost of living with even people with low paying jobs on the street, women are filling up the streets like guys. They may be less likely to be really left to fend for themselves on the streets then guys.
A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.
 

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Then why are there shelter systems for women, especially if they are fleeing an abusive partner? Why are there any woman in the shelter system at all? That logic does not add up to reality.
A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed. :rolleyes:
 

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If they can't sell you profitable medication they don't give a **** is kind of the bottom line, in Alberta, Canada, where I'm from for example they have basically abolished institutionalizing except in the most extreme cases, as a result our homeless population has been growing, but after Covid it outright exploded, Covid would simply circulate throughout the shelters without end.

Now it's getting to the point where people don't want to ride on public transportation because that's where all these people congregate, you'll be on the train and some guy will light up a cigarette or smoke crack and all the old and young people just stare at me as if I'm supposed to do something, the institutions have failed and they look to the public individual to deal with these things on a case by case basis, so you either get stabbed or emasculated.

Its ridiculous being a man out here, I'm grappling with my own stuff as it is, who needs this on top.
Bro I didn’t know you in Alberta. I’m in calgary
 

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A shelter is a temporary place while the chick can go looking for that bed. :rolleyes:
Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A woman can always find a bed to sleep in - and yes, it will require doing something else in that bed. :rolleyes:
It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.
 

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It would get more difficult for them to do that after menopausal age. Before menopausal age, that's more accurate.
Yes, that's the reason that the only young homeless women you see are the severely drugged out; the rest of them have found a "home" - at the very least a pimp would give her a place to stay. :rolleyes:
 

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Yeah but they don't have to fvck a guy to access that bed, which was the point you were trying to make, no?
Yes, a chick could go live in a shelter, or find some guy she doesn't mind servicing. You will admit that a man's home will almost always be better than a shelter.
 

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I think the unsaid assumption is that any ‘housed’ person can get sFx. So. The homeless can’t get sFx because they are homeless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think the unsaid assumption is that any ‘housed’ person can get sFx.
There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to sex.

Neil Strauss was a prominent journalist who was lacking access to sex despite being 'housed'. Then, he started to spend time with Mystery and other PUAs and learned how to seduce despite baldness and being 5'6". Strauss did exceptionally well as a student. Most PUA students don't have the results Strauss had.
 

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There are plenty of 'housed' men who are incel or borderline incel and lacking access to
I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.
 

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I’m not disagreeing with you. But the default thinking for most people is Blue Pill. That virtually everyone who wants to, can be in a relationship.
The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.

My main social circle has a blue pill ideology towards romantic relationships. When I think of most of the people I've met in-person, I am unable to identify many people with red or black pill ideologies towards relationships.
 

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The blue pill ideology about romantic interactions is the dominant ideology. That's problematic.

My main social circle has a blue pill ideology towards romantic relationships. When I think of most of the people I've met in-person, I am unable to identify many people with red or black pill ideologies towards relationships.
Most of my social circle are Black pilled. That includes the married guys.
 
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