"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zooey Deschanel and Jonathan Scott Are Engaged! 'Forever Starts Now'

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Him:

- 45 years old
- 1 divorce
- 0 kids
- decent looking
- has money
- 6’5

Her:

- 43 years old (not fertile)
- 2 divorces
- 2 kids
- good looking for age
- has money



Why would a 45 year old 6’5 actor with 0 children ask a non-fertile twice divorced single mom of 2 small kids to be his wife?

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Thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why would anyone who has already been divorced once want to be married again, let alone to someone who has already been divorced TWICE!?!

Once, OK...you made a mistake I get it...twice, is a pattern of not being suitable to be with someone long term and not marriage material.
 

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Why would a 45 year old 6’5 actor with 0 children ask a non-fertile twice divorced single mom of 2 small kids to be his wife?

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Hollywood.

It is what these people do to garner publicity. And when that runs it's course... have a nice nasty @ss divorce complete with infidelity with co-stars... or better yet, one of them sudden decide they are homosexual. That and adopt a rainbow collection of children that are actually raised by nannies. If you are a Hollywood man in his 70s, and the 'plumbing' no longer works anyway, just chop the sucker off, change your name to "Kaitlin" suddenly you are all the rage again with people declaring you 'brave and beautiful'.

These people live in a completely different world.
 

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I think this is an example of being a glutton for punishment. He surely has some internal issues, maybe fear of being alone, a feeling he's not good enough, who knows what exactly. :rolleyes:
If he was fully secure in who he is and his masculinity he'd look at it as a joke to get engaged to that woman.
 

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Hollywood.

It is what these people do to garner publicity. And when that runs it's course... have a nice nasty @ss divorce complete with infidelity with co-stars... or better yet, one of them sudden decide they are homosexual. That and adopt a rainbow collection of children that are actually raised by nannies. If you are a Hollywood man in his 70s, and the 'plumbing' no longer works anyway, just chop the sucker off, change your name to "Kaitlin" suddenly you are all the rage again with people declaring you 'brave and beautiful'.

These people live in a completely different world.
So true
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I thought the property brothers were gay lol. Good for him then but it prob won't last unfortunately.
 

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This guy is insane for proposing marriage to a twice divorced single mom with 2 children under 10.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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