Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your thoughts on the jason country song?

Millard Fillmore

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From afar perspective -- I'm in Russian Federation, it's pretty far. I think problems that brought you where you are right now:

1. Gun rights
2. Freedom of speech


Let me explain.

Freedom of speech is what brought you the BLM and LGBT, plus satanists, scientology, jahova's witness, KKK, antifa, and all other dirt that exist in your country. Not all speech should be free to express, that's the bottom line. We have a law against propaganda of LGBT, it's illegal. You can screw whichever way you like in the privacy of your home. You can be gay. Our super star celebrity -- Phillip Kirkorov -- is gay. Admired by most. But he is not pushing his gayness onto others.

We have no gun rights, other than hunting smooth and rifled bore, and self defense none lethal. Crime rates are much lower than in States. You can go out at night, it's safe. You on the other hand have heavy policing, if put in numbers 1000 times much than in Russia, and gun rights, and it does not much you safer. Instead, it teaches you culture of mistrust. Americans love saying (in this song it is said perfectly), if you thread on us, we will........ No you won't! Your gun rights haven't helped you so far, haven't saved you from LGBT's teaching your kids to be gay in kindergarten. Your gun rights did not save wall marts from being robbed by BLM.

Both of these rights are important, but there should be some form of enforcement, otherwise everyone, even the queers and robbers get to voice and enforce their freedom to whatever they want, destroying in the process your freedoms.
Interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing.

My view is Americans are in many ways self-brainwashed into believing they're more "free" than they are. They're free in many many ways (especially in a business/commercial sense) but also live in manmade figurative prisons as well.

However I don't think that more laws are the answer, the US is already overlegislated and people should try moving toward a more live and let live model. The constitution itself hooks people on relying on gov't for their "rights" instead of looking to the self. We're all 100% free to do as we please but actions can have consequences.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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From afar perspective -- I'm in Russian Federation, it's pretty far. I think problems that brought you where you are right now:

1. Gun rights
2. Freedom of speech


Let me explain.

Freedom of speech is what brought you the BLM and LGBT, plus satanists, scientology, jahova's witness, KKK, antifa, and all other dirt that exist in your country. Not all speech should be free to express, that's the bottom line. We have a law against propaganda of LGBT, it's illegal. You can screw whichever way you like in the privacy of your home. You can be gay. Our super star celebrity -- Phillip Kirkorov -- is gay. Admired by most. But he is not pushing his gayness onto others.

We have no gun rights, other than hunting smooth and rifled bore, and self defense none lethal. Crime rates are much lower than in States. You can go out at night, it's safe. You on the other hand have heavy policing, if put in numbers 1000 times much than in Russia, and gun rights, and it does not much you safer. Instead, it teaches you culture of mistrust. Americans love saying (in this song it is said perfectly), if you thread on us, we will........ No you won't! Your gun rights haven't helped you so far, haven't saved you from LGBT's teaching your kids to be gay in kindergarten. Your gun rights did not save wall marts from being robbed by BLM.

Both of these rights are important, but there should be some form of enforcement, otherwise everyone, even the queers and robbers get to voice and enforce their freedom to whatever they want, destroying in the process your freedoms.
To be fair, if you guys held on to your guns in 1918, you'd have spare 60 million or so lives.
 

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Country Music fans are a loyal bunch. Imo Aldean could've picked another shooting location for the video, given the lyrics and the courthouse's past. But Aldean was merely pandering to his base, and it makes me suspicious the banking class wasn't influencing this decision (bribes, ESG scores, blackmail, shareholders hostile to the consumer base, etc), especially after the Budweiser fiasco.

Bankers love to foment division and start wars.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hi Billy,
"There's a reason Scotland has 3 times the murder rate of England (and the highest in all of Europe, including Russia)".
Well don't know where you dug those statistics up from Old Chap,but based on the below
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate
Homicide per 100.000/Year
Scotland 1.1.
England and wales 1.1.
Ireland .6
Russia 6.8.
US 6.8.
US Virgin islands 49.3
As a small Lad of maybe nine years Old I remember half a dozen of Dads Old relatives who had fought in Highland Regiments in WW1 sitting around a Table and getting fiercer and fiercer as they drank more and more Teachers Whisky...On the way home Dad confided that sure, these Old Guys had in the fierceness of Battle taken Hills and Redoubts at the point of the bayonet but they often neglect to tell you that in many cases, the next morning they retreated,without much of a fight only to have a steady English or Welsh Regiment retake it...My GrandFather and a Cousin sought out and found another Cousin and his Brother amongst the fallen at the second battle of Ypres,he said as they wandered around they met Germans doing the same he made eye contact with one who just shook his head,he responded similarly,all fine Men!
 
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depends on the city, this is definitely not the case in New Orleans for example.
Because it’s New Orleans. One of the most dangerous cities in the western hemisphere. Few jobs and industry. To put in perspective, they are even starting to gentrify Detroit. Cities like Chicago and NYC, crime is concentrated in only a few neighborhoods.
 

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The song and video just gives the woke left another thing to whine about. One false move these days and the woke mob just goes berserk.

Interestingly, one of the riot scenes is in Toronto where you can see a Toronto police car burning. That riot was about police brutality and had nothing to do with race.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It’s not small town America or edgy suburban Bob doing the crime, it’s crime happening in the inner cities affected by socioeconomics.
In Russia's case, it was the government.
 

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Hi Billy,
"There's a reason Scotland has 3 times the murder rate of England (and the highest in all of Europe, including Russia)".
Well don't know where you dug those statistics up from Old Chap,but based on the below
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_intentional_homicide_rate
Homicide per 100.000/Year
Scotland 1.1.
England and wales 1.1.
Ireland .6
Russia 6.8.
US 6.8.
US Virgin islands 49.3
As a small Lad of maybe nine years Old I remember half a dozen of Dads Old relatives who had fought in Highland Regiments in WW1 sitting around a Table and getting fiercer and fiercer as they drank more and more Teachers Whisky...On the way home Dad confided that sure, these Old Guys had in the fierceness of Battle taken Hills and Redoubts at the point of the bayonet but they often neglect to tell you that in many cases, the next morning they retreated,without much of a fight only to have a steady English or Welsh Regiment retake it...My GrandFather and a Cousin sought out and found another Cousin and his Brother amongst the fallen at the second battle of Ypres,he said as they wandered around they met Germans doing the same he made eye contact with one who just shook his head,he responded similarly,all fine Men!
Admittedly I forgot where I saw it, but I found this right here


Both your relatives and Germans were good men, both World Wars were banker's wars. It's important to note in America the Federal Reserve and a Federal Income Tax were both set up in 1913, which ensured financing for both WWI and the Communist Revolution.
 

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Hi Billy,
Thanks for that,You are right about Bankers,is there ever a War that these Vultures don't feed off?..Your Federal reserve seems such an anachronism,quite intriguing that the mightiest Economy in the World is in thrall to a private Institution!
 

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not into country music (unless I’m driving through a country’ area). But it sounds like it’s pisding off the right people.
 

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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