"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women and their "men keep sending us **** pics and perv messages".

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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Well, some guys do. A lot of women send nudies too, but you don't usually hear guys complaining about it.
 

SW15

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It's because unattractive men send penis pics and perv messages. Women aren't going to complain when a 6'0"+ man with low body fat and nice muscles send a picture of his penis if its size is average or bigger.

Rule #1: Be attractive. Don't be attractive.
 

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I don't send them **** pics, I send them "sock under the towel" pics and let their imaginations do the rest.

Of course, it's just a sock.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its no big lie. 9
I don't send them **** pics, I send them "sock under the towel" pics and let their imaginations do the rest.

Of course, it's just a sock.
I always hang a 2 liter bottle of soda from my waste and hide it with the towel. Go big or go home! o_O Maybe there's a reason I keep attracting freaks.
 

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Its no big lie. 9

I always hang a 2 liter bottle of soda from my waste and hide it with the towel. Go big or go home! o_O Maybe there's a reason I keep attracting freaks.
Ahh, when the autocorrect changes "waist" to "waste"
 
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