Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anytime you wonder about why in these situations it's because the woman is amazing in the bedroom and he is sprung.Hair, height, muscles, money yet he married at 39yrs old a divorced single mom 4yrs older than him. As if that wasn't enough, at that time she was embroiled in a legal battle with an ex over her frozen eggs.Exclusive | Sofía Vergara and Joe Manganiello divorcing after seven years of marriage
Vergara and Manganiello are divorcing after seven years of marriage, sources reveal, while the “Modern Family” beauty parties with friends in Italy.pagesix.com
