Female mind -

[Bigpapa]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

what”s up with that?

me personally I am not that moved by her blocking me out of the sudden, but it still feels bad as it is totally unexpected as I enjoyed her company. Haven’t laughed like I laughed with her for a while

very unexpected thing

 

[CBear]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

what”s up with that?

me personally I am not that moved by her blocking me out of the sudden, but it still feels bad as it is totally unexpected as I enjoyed her company. Haven’t laughed like I laughed with her for a while

very unexpected thing

Probably cheated on her bf and wanted to remove all trace of it after getting her dopamine rush.

 

[forcerecon01]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

what”s up with that?

me personally I am not that moved by her blocking me out of the sudden, but it still feels bad as it is totally unexpected as I enjoyed her company. Haven’t laughed like I laughed with her for a while

very unexpected thing

Very strange ...... Did you creep her out?

 

[Bigpapa]

Very strange ...... Did you creep her out?

nope…nada

did not treat her any different than any other woman

most likely @CBear has a valid point,I can not think about anything else

but even if she cheated on her bf, still blocking a guy for no reason is still a bit too much if you ask me

funny thing though, women complain that guys are not emphatic but still they do sh1t way more “autistic” than guys do

 

[Tilex]

What did you do together before sex happened?
Alcohol or Drugs involved?
What lead up to the sex?

 

[forcerecon01]

nope…nada

did not treat her any different than any other woman

most likely @CBear has a valid point,I can not think about anything else

but even if she cheated on her bf, still blocking a guy for no reason is still a bit too much if you ask me

funny thing though, women complain that guys are not emphatic but still they do sh1t way more “autistic” than guys do

Maybe she unintentionally blocked you by mistake? I say call her up or talk to you in person so you know for sure

 

[inquisitor]

Funny thing

I met a girl from OLD, she was super friendly and natural. We slept together. She then says that it was the most amazing night ever bla hla

then she leaves my place, send a lot of messages till she got home. Writes to me in the morning that she is going to grab a coffee and that she is super happy

by the time I wake up and reply to her, around 2-3 pm I am already blocked on whatssup

what”s up with that?

me personally I am not that moved by her blocking me out of the sudden, but it still feels bad as it is totally unexpected as I enjoyed her company. Haven’t laughed like I laughed with her for a while

very unexpected thing

The female mind is very fickle, and is highly dependent on time and context. That said, if I were to guess, she chatted happily before suddenly blocking you to leave the impression that although she is rejecting you, she didn't want to look like an assh*le about it. She didn't want you to think that she's being bad to you. Maybe she also didn't want herself to think that she's being bad to you.

However, she thought she left you on good terms when really, she left you confused. Of course, the ideal thing would be for her to just outright communicate that she doesn't want to continue the chatting (if she liked you, which seems to be the case), and for you both to say nice goodbyes to each other before she would block... but, girls. She wouldn't express that to you directly - she would imply it. Now, whether what you did was great or not, or whether you thought what you did was great or not, it was her choice and preference as much as it is yours. Knowing she most likely enjoyed your time, then it's nothing personal. Just would have been better if she said something first and clarified things before blocking, right? I do share that sentiment.

 

[inquisitor]

Probably cheated on her bf and wanted to remove all trace of it after getting her dopamine rush.

Cool, never thought of it that way.

 

[Bigpapa]

What did you do together before sex happened?
Alcohol or Drugs involved?
What lead up to the sex?

yeah,we had 2-3 glasses of alcohol. She was a bit tipsy

but I do not think that this is the main reason on why she blocked me. She texted me again in the morning after she woke up saying that she still is smiling from our night together

we just chat like old friends do, and then I escalated till sex happened

 

[BillyPilgrim]

nope…nada

did not treat her any different than any other woman

most likely @CBear has a valid point,I can not think about anything else

but even if she cheated on her bf, still blocking a guy for no reason is still a bit too much if you ask me

funny thing though, women complain that guys are not emphatic but still they do sh1t way more “autistic” than guys do

Did she give you her smartphone #? Can you still talk to her on the OLD app you used?

 

[Bigpapa]

Maybe she unintentionally blocked you by mistake? I say call her up or talk to you in person so you know for sure

i doubt that you block someone by mistake, and if you do and you expect a message, it says there that the user is blocked

 

[forcerecon01]

i doubt that you block someone by mistake, and if you do and you expect a message, it says there that the user is blocked

Girls aren't good with computers. That's my experience anyways

 

[Bigpapa]

Did she give you her smartphone #? Can you still talk to her on the OLD app you used?

ueah, got her number and from old she unmatched me ( or deleted the account )

 

[Bigpapa]

Girls aren't good with computers. That's my experience anyways

I think they are way smarter than us, men, in how to use them

Depends on the age group. Under 30s are experts in social media tech

 

[BillyPilgrim]

ueah, got her number and from old she unmatched me ( or deleted the account )

She could have deleted her account or maybe she did something accidentally. If there's another way to contact her give it a shot.

It's also summer vacation season too, so maybe a fling.

 

[Bigpapa]

The female mind is very fickle, and is highly dependent on time and context. That said, if I were to guess, she chatted happily before suddenly blocking you to leave the impression that although she is rejecting you, she didn't want to look like an assh*le about it. She didn't want you to think that she's being bad to you. Maybe she also didn't want herself to think that she's being bad to you.

However, she thought she left you on good terms when really, she left you confused. Of course, the ideal thing would be for her to just outright communicate that she doesn't want to continue the chatting (if she liked you, which seems to be the case), and for you both to say nice goodbyes to each other before she would block... but, girls. She wouldn't express that to you directly - she would imply it. Now, whether what you did was great or not, or whether you thought what you did was great or not, it was her choice and preference as much as it is yours. Knowing she most likely enjoyed your time, then it's nothing personal. Just would have been better if she said something first and clarified things before blocking, right? I do share that sentiment.

I would say that it is more like, she looked very excited even post-night then boom, she blocks me out of nowhere. Just confused

I do accept her choice and it is ok, just that I am confused on the chronology

like almost love bombing me post then block. Weird Haha

it happened to me a couple of times, and every time I was left with a taste of “ wtf!? Are you serious? “

 

[RazorRambo24]

its common with girls who need a high level of attention and validation--if they dont get it right away they start thinknig u just hit it and quit it, like most other dudes. this is why hoes are chronically insecure.. their security comes artificially hwen they land one guy who sees them regularly and from attenton from simps, but they feel unloved cuz so many guys saddle and skadaddle.

its also common with girls who like you but dont like you enough. they expect u to treat them a certain way and u dont, so they block u out of anger.. lik e"omg he thnks hes the shti now cuz he f-ed me?" howdare he, hes not even fine , hes ugly, and his dic.ck is small!"

 

[Bigpapa]

its common with girls who need a high level of attention and validation--if they dont get it right away they start thinknig u just hit it and quit it, like most other dudes. this is why hoes are chronically insecure.. their security comes artificially hwen they land one guy who sees them regularly and from attenton from simps, but they feel unloved cuz so many guys saddle and skadaddle.

its also common with girls who like you but dont like you enough. they expect u to treat them a certain way and u dont, so they block u out of anger.. lik e"omg he thnks hes the shti now cuz he f-ed me?" howdare he, hes not even fine , hes ugly, and his dic.ck is small!"

could be also the case actually

women get annoyed if you do not reply in 1-2h max

women, they expect a guy to be non stop on the phone talking bullsh1t with them, only to sh1t test him later down the road to see if he is a simp or not

apparently yes and no can be valid at the same time in the head of woman

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Papa, maybe hint at hanging out together in the future to minimize the risk of them doing this....Rambo's theory sounds plausible, but if she's "super happy" when she's a little hungover, maybe she was just feeling insecure. Also if it felt it you were talking like old friends and then sex, maybe she's thinking it happened too fast and had conflicting thoughts. Remember, this is from OLD so a lot of them get pumped and dumped.

 

[Bigpapa]

Papa, maybe hint at hanging out together in the future to minimize the risk of them doing this....Rambo's theory sounds plausible, but if she's "super happy" when she's a little hungover, maybe she was just feeling insecure. Also if it felt it you were talking like old friends and then sex, maybe she's thinking it happened too fast and had conflicting thoughts. Remember, this is from OLD so a lot of them get pumped and dumped.

makes sense, maybe it happened to her and became jaded and wanted to do the same thing to a guy to patch her ego

Could be an explanation as well