“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Professional Pics for Online Dating- Worth It?

RazorRambo24

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Yeah, I've got an IPhone 14 Pro Max which has an unbelievable camera. I could just get cool photos whilst travelling (whilst looking good ofc). The pro pics might be a bit redundant.
The difference is this; with your own cameras you might take selfies or your friends might take pictures of you here and there.. in casual situations or w.e.. But when you take professional photos.. you usually like bring out some of your best looks/outfits, prepare for it, you might choose some dope backdrops or settings to take photos and the lens's on those cameras are way bette rthan phone lens so you get more of a sense of depth. + like someone else mentioned, photography is alot more about angles and lighting and sht than just taking pics on your phone lol

Regardless man, its more about just having good images, and the context of the image.

Most dudes have a great photo, but their picture they look like they have NO personality. I mean sht even a goofy/funny face shows more personality tahn a guy looking stoic like hes posing for a Linked In photo.. Girls pay attention to sht like that. If you have no photos with cool friends in them, but you have a buncha professional photos, guess waht, your profile is still not going to look that attractive.

As a guy, I recommend having photos that show off masculine qualities in you.. A photo enjoying a cigar in what looks like a nice setting that resembles a bit of status or something is more powerful than you standing by yourself with some mountains behind you. UNLESS, that photo of you standing with mountains behind you is shirtless but with a backpack to show you're hiking or something.

I use a photo of me holding a fish on a dock (i dont even fish and dont know how to ) but i purposly made a picture like that to show off my physque without being douchey. Girls hate when guys flex for the camera , especially at th egym. To them its super cringe.. as if a woman was purposely bending over to show u her cleavage in a pic. its just like begging for attention

If you hav enice wrists/forarm..you can have a pic where you're grabbing onto something showing off those forearm muscles/vascular arms.. with rolled up sleeves. this can be you on a dirt bike, a motorcycle an atv.. this can be you pickin something up or holding a baseball bat like you're about to swing it... as long as it makes sense, women notice these subtle things that turn them on.. like nice strong wrists/arms taht are vascular.

Masculine qualities turn on womne jus like feminine **** like nice legs and a skirt turn on men.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No woman of any real worth is going to give a flying monkeys about wether your photos are professional or not

You don't need a professional photo to be attached to someone

All you will attract is super picky and unrealistic women who are looking for a certain type of man to fit into her own fake lifestyle

Apps in general are a terrible way to meet people and often conclude to absolutely nothing

Have extremely low expectations and invest as little as possible
 

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I’ve had success with phone pics, not sure paying for a professional is worth it. Never heard do anyone irl doing this.

If you’re average or below in looks, you need to maximise what you can so might be worth it. But then again, if you’re an average looking man, OLD isn’t for you and cold/warm approach irl is going to be the way you get hot women.
 
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