An HB10 at work but i'm a BAFC and feel not good enough, should i approach?

[DoofusDonutDude]

There's a HB10 at work. Tall, extremely good looking, well dressed, confident, comes from a very rich family, well read and cultured, slightly younger than me. I've just discovered the DJ bible and just started self-improvement. I'm shorter than her, less well to do, have severe social anxiety, different origins, just started getting my life togethar and a nerd body that i've just started training. A year or two (or less) she would be married (got to do something with where she comes from)

Should i approach? I know what the Book of Pook says, ACTION ! but what's the point? I know she will say NO - as per the book, i should i apply the same standards to myself and i most certainly do not hold up.

I've also developed bit of a oneitis, pedestalizing her, thinking i will never come across someone more beautiful than her..

What should i do?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Not feeling comfortable with having chosen a self-defeating screen name would be a start.

 

[DoofusDonutDude]

Not feeling comfortable with having chosen a self-defeating screen name would be a start.

It was a random name. I didn't exactly know what a doofus means..until your comment made me look it up.

 

[NealIRC]

Try to get in the friend zone 1st. Someone she can vent to.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Try to get in the friend zone 1st. Someone she can vent to.

It’s funny you say that because my longest relationship I was the guy she vented to (we were fvcking before tho) and maybe that’s what sealed the deal? Is there value to being her emotional tampon like that?