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It’s stupid to mention how much you earn on dates
Money affords you connection that you otherwise would not have access to. The disposable income you have will give you opportunities to date a variety of women.Disagree with you
Money can help you only if you spend it accordingly and to be like it is not big deal either
Unless you are a multi millionaire and also have plenty of time to enjoy what money can buy or something along this line, I do not think that money helps you to be successful
Sure, if you are a Brokie might affect your dating life, but anything above that it does not help either
In all fairness, how many guys that are rich also have the time to spend it and enjoy life? Maybe trust funds guys, and they are not that many around
I think we are along the same page here. Areas with high cost of living will expose you to more optionsEven though we have been at odds and you have made some accusations against me OP, I will contribute to your thread.
I grew up somewhat middle class but in an area which was largely ghetto and trailer trash. What I have found is that these women will go for loser guys that get into trouble. The best looking women all seem to date and go for men who have a criminal element to them whether it is being in a gang of some kind or having that scrappy behavior. For that reason, I don't mess around with a lot of lower income women. If you did not have that sort of behavior or vibe to you, these women would pass you up or just try to play you.
What I did was I went off to college, studied my butt off, and moved to the city I grew up in for a year. The vibe was the same where people were in tight cliques and you had a lot of trashy women.
I then got a job in NYC and moved there while living with a few roommates. The women were somewhat easier because they judged you more on what came out of your mouth, how you carried yourself, and looked down on the overcompensating douche that broke women actually dated.
A lot of my former classmates had settled into LTRs in their mid-20s in the same old town. I moved to NYC and was just discovering myself. I found that moving out of my comfort zone helped me grow in many ways outside of just game. It made me stronger and ironically led me to game.
You see, when you grow up in bumphuk America and Ghettoville, it is a somewhat closed environment. You hit on the wrong girl in some cases, a gang is ready to jump you. A lot of these dudes whether they are trailer trash or ghetto trash have been in and out of jail and have nothing to lose. When you stick around in those environments, your world view gets poisoned and you have a ton of limiting beliefs.
When you move to an NYC, LA, or Chicago, it is an open environment. Women do not feel obligated to go for any one guy and will give you a shot if you have the game. Your mind expands and you start seeing possibilities. When you see a 35 year old guy slaying it compared to some 35 year old dude in a small town married with kids, you start asking what is possible.