AureliusMaximus
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Yeah that one works. This one for example doesn't work: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Good to see someone taking a look!
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Great thread. After multiple thred on single moms, prostitutes, and lay counts this feels like a breath of fresh air.
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AureliusMaximus
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Indeed. I fully agree on that.
There is way too much unproductive "Facebook'ish type BS" posted here these days of low grade posts instead of people actually using their brains and posting useful information that helps guys grow to the better version of themselves.
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Yes! Take a read. Game recognizes game, men. Good on ya. Pook's lessons are great. They're timeless and, IMO, have been foundations for this forum.
Let us know what you think. Add your own.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
AureliusMaximus
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I been reading quite a lot of it here too https://bookofpook.com which also have lazy mode due to that they offer a audio book sound recording of each post for free. Its quite convenient to be able to just listen to it.
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There it is. That is why the link is not working. "15" Vs. "Fifteen"? Someone changed it here at SS. It was always "15". So be it, AS. View attachment 10086I been reading quite a lot of it here too https://bookofpook.com which also have lazy mode due to that they offer a audio book sound recording of each post for free. Its quite convenient to be able to just listen to it.
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Lesson 1: “Rejection is better than Regret”
I always remember the first time I read these words. In my mind it was like "D@mn! So simple but it totally makes sense! I should remember these words every time Im hesitating about cold approach"
Lesson 2: "Friendship-Abondon all hope ye who enter!"
Totally There can be exceptions but exceptions make the rule. On general. genuine friendships between male and female do not exist
Lesson 3: "Judge by actions, not by words."
This is good and not only for dealing with girls. I think it can sometimes apply to work, friendships, relatives, etc.
Lesson 4: "Patience is the refined sense of confidence."
I did not remember this one. Maybe its about outcome indifference. Maybe its about frame.
Lesson 5: "Trust the gut."
Your gut is there for a reason. it will be right more than half the time.