"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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    What did Pook mean by this? How can one 'know too much' and what is so bad about it?

    On The Secret of the Jerk, there is something that caught my eye: And here is Pook's response: What is so "black" about female nature that someone could want to unlearn it or wish to never have learnt it? He said how older women especially know this. For some reason, I feel this ties into the...
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    The Author Who Was The Biggest Influence On The Manosphere

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    DJ Bible Study, Lessons 11 through 15 of Pook's "15 Lessons"

    Welcome to DJ Bible Study Lesson's 11 through 12 of Pook's "15 Lessons" They can be read here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150 There seemed to be a different feel in these last five lessons. Maybe simply because last week, I felt like a big mystery that was...
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    DJ Bible Study, Lessons 6 through 10 of Pook's "15 Lessons"

    Welcome to DJ Bible Study. Lessons 6 through 10 of Pook's "15 Lessons" They can be read here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150 Last week's discussion can be read here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212115 During this week's reading I realized...
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    DJ Bible Study

    Welcome to DJ Bible Study. The first five lessons of Pook's "15 Lessons" They can be read here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150 Some of you may have seen my previous posts throughout the week in regards to this. Very simply, I'm going to be reading and...
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