AureliusMaximus
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Yeah that one works. This one for example doesn't work: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Good to see someone taking a look!
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Great thread. After multiple thred on single moms, prostitutes, and lay counts this feels like a breath of fresh air.
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AureliusMaximus
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Indeed. I fully agree on that.
There is way too much unproductive "Facebook'ish type BS" posted here these days of low grade posts instead of people actually using their brains and posting useful information that helps guys grow to the better version of themselves.
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Yes! Take a read. Game recognizes game, men. Good on ya. Pook's lessons are great. They're timeless and, IMO, have been foundations for this forum.
Let us know what you think. Add your own.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
AureliusMaximus
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I been reading quite a lot of it here too https://bookofpook.com which also have lazy mode due to that they offer a audio book sound recording of each post for free. Its quite convenient to be able to just listen to it.
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There it is. That is why the link is not working. "15" Vs. "Fifteen"? Someone changed it here at SS. It was always "15". So be it, AS. View attachment 10086I been reading quite a lot of it here too https://bookofpook.com which also have lazy mode due to that they offer a audio book sound recording of each post for free. Its quite convenient to be able to just listen to it.
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Lesson 1: “Rejection is better than Regret”
I always remember the first time I read these words. In my mind it was like "D@mn! So simple but it totally makes sense! I should remember these words every time Im hesitating about cold approach"
Lesson 2: "Friendship-Abondon all hope ye who enter!"
Totally There can be exceptions but exceptions make the rule. On general. genuine friendships between male and female do not exist
Lesson 3: "Judge by actions, not by words."
This is good and not only for dealing with girls. I think it can sometimes apply to work, friendships, relatives, etc.
Lesson 4: "Patience is the refined sense of confidence."
I did not remember this one. Maybe its about outcome indifference. Maybe its about frame.
Lesson 5: "Trust the gut."
Your gut is there for a reason. it will be right more than half the time.