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30, vertical, Asian
True, just fancied my curiosity on google and it could be anything, including a tumor
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Sounds like a laparotomy scar, you should endeavor to find out what was done. Does she have two kidneys? Did she have diverticulitis? What happened. If it’s a long term interest otherwise, don’t bother.
Because if shes had a secret C-section (I believe they are all horizontal these days but used to be vertical), then for LTR that's a big issue
There are a number of things that could be an issue. She could have krohns, could be living with one kidney, could have a resectioned bowel, may not have ovaries (although the incision seems to be too high for that- but still possible). Knowing her health status is important if you’re looking at the long term.
I'm just more of the mindset of facing something like that if crosses my path. I think for an ltr you are right certainly, but op said it is a plate and generally if someone tells me something about a medical issue I'll take it as truth unless they've given me reason not to.
Did you ask any follow up when she said it was a tumor? Like - what kind of tumor, what she had to go through to get that taken care of, recovery time, etc. Stuff that kind of shows you care but at same time lets you do some investigating without making it really obvious that you want the information for your own purposes? Also - do you sense she is being dishonest?
I'm not sure why you would not believe her when she told you that and don't know what your concern is with it?
