I’m cheating on her at this moment

[BeExcellent]

I agree. There are men who dont cheat. Lemme ask this. If these men had access to the hottest women and would not get caught...would they still be faithful?

Some would, yes. It comes down to a man’s character and value system. Men who greatly cherish their women are disgusted at the idea of succumbing to a beautiful w h o r e for momentary pleasure that could wreck their life partnership. They would find this to be weakness within themselves. Some go to the point of avoiding situations that put them at risk. They do not worship or value the hotness nearly as much as they value their commitment. Those men certainly exist.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Fraud is wrong regardless of any other rationalization. If you are defrauding your girlfriend, there is a big problem. Is the argument really that fraud is ok as long as you REALLY wanted to do it?

Fraud is a crime. Stop it.

Some would, yes. It comes down to a man’s character and value system. Men who greatly cherish their women are disgusted at the idea of succumbing to a beautiful w h o r e for momentary pleasure that could wreck their life partnership.

If there were no chance of getting caught, 100% of men are banging the other woman if she is hot enough. Those who say otherwise are capping.

 

[EyeBRollin]

He took the vow DJ, sometimes before GOD, to remain faithful.

He can't just make up his own definition after that, come on man.

If you find out your man cheated, are you leaving?

 

[Stanley]

.....arguing with a fool only proves that there are two....

 

[Macadellic]

OP,
Cheat and find what you feel.

If you feel bad that’s telling you something.
If you feel nothing that’s telling your something.
If you feel good that’s telling you something.
If you feel great that’s telling you something.

I have cheated on gf’s and have felt all the above and I knew exactly what to do.

Didn’t feel bad, I don’t care about my gf.
Felt nothing, I ended things with her.
Felt good, kept my gf and eventually ended things.
Felt great, continued to cheat and moved on.

Welcome to being a man.

Women want a man that
can cheat but chooses not to.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Fraud is wrong regardless of any other rationalization. If you are defrauding your girlfriend, there is a big problem. Is the argument really that fraud is ok as long as you REALLY wanted to do it?

Just win, baby?

 

[Pandora]

What I'm saying is, why is the guy screwing another woman such an unforgiveable act if he doesn't have any emotional tie to the woman, or gives her any resources?

Exactly. Im not saying cheating is right. I am saying its not this unforgivable act that American culture makes it seem to be. Im pretty sure financially neglecting your family is 10x worse but dead beat fathers dont get as much wrath as a " cheater".

 

[CBear]

Banging other chicks = spreading seed. That’s how humans are wired. As seen in another thread, more women are in relationships than men. The mathematical explanation is that women share men. Whether we morally agree or disagree with it, a few of the men are fvcking all the women. Just the facts.

My opinion is that men have no reason to feel guilty about it. If you have the ability to bang multiple girls, that is just nature at work. Sexual monogamy is unnatural for men; no woman is offering up a commensurate sacrifice.

The whole problem with this "spreading the seed" point is that this would be the case if it were millions of years ago and a male was trying to carry his legacy on/being the fittest to survive. Survival of the fittest in today's de-evolving world is successfully raising kids in a two person household. What differentiates us as humans is that we've developed more intelligence to be civil. This mindset is very animalistic/primal which does no good in today's world. There is a certain lack of intelligence to those who have no control over their primal side.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Exactly. Im not saying cheating is right. I am saying its not this unforgivable act that American culture makes it seem to be. Im pretty sure financially neglecting your family is 10x worse but dead beat fathers dont get as much wrath as a " cheater".

People vote with their feet. What we know is that women in 2023 are sharing men.

 

[EyeBRollin]

There is a certain lack of intelligence to those who have no control over their primal side.

That means women have no intelligence. They still aren’t giving broke guys a chance.

 

[bat soup]

Taking a dump and gonna cheat in 2 minutes. Don’t know what to feel about it. Don’t know why I’m doing it either.

It's necessary to take a dump every so often.

 

[CBear]

That means women have no intelligence. They still aren’t giving broke guys a chance.

What does that have anything to do with what I said?

 

[EyeBRollin]

What does that have anything to do with what I said?

It is a direct response.

“There is a certain lack of intelligence to those who have no control over their primal side.”

Women have no control over their primal side.

 

[CBear]

It is a direct response.

“There is a certain lack of intelligence to those who have no control over their primal side.”

Women have no control over their primal side.

Why wouldn't you want to be the most dominant man and climb up the hierarchy, if that's what you have to do?

Any normal male wouldn't want his daughter to get with someone broke as it's more likely that the person won't be able to have the resources or the will to protect or provide for her or her family, aka, your legacy. This is moreso in the interest of you than the actual female.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Why wouldn't you want to be the most dominant man and climb up the hierarchy, if that's what you have to do?

Any normal male wouldn't want his daughter to get with someone broke as it's more likely that the person won't be able to have the resources or the will to protect or provide for her or her family, aka, your legacy. This is moreso in the interest of you than the actual female.

I reporting what is truthful. Your statement is that people who don’t reject their primal side are unintelligent. Logic says therefore women are unintelligent. They refuse to “settle” for lesser or even average men, instead they share the top guys. More women are in relationships than men, thus indicating that infidelity is a mathematical reality.

 

[CBear]

I reporting what is truthful. Your statement is that people who don’t reject their primal side are unintelligent. Logic says therefore women are unintelligent. They refuse to “settle” for lesser or even average men, instead they share the top guys. More women are in relationships than men, thus indicating that infidelity is a mathematical reality.

What you stated is the female equivalent of a man "spreading his seed" nowadays. So yes, both of these equal low IQ humans.

 

[EyeBRollin]

What you stated is the female equivalent of a man "spreading his seed" nowadays. So yes, both of these equal low IQ humans.

Yes, the female equivalent.

Data says all women act this way. Are they unintelligent?

If monogamy were reality, the number of men and women in committed relationships would be equivalent. Instead, there is a huge discrepancy. Infidelity is rampant.

 

[CBear]

Yes, the female equivalent.

Data says all women act this way. Are they unintelligent?

If monogamy were reality, the number of men and women in committed relationships would be equivalent. Instead, there is a huge discrepancy. Infidelity is rampant.

60% of women in relationships while 30% of men in relationships does not determine that all women act this way. But yes, if you're in a relationship with an unfaithful person, then obviously you don't mind them being unfaithful. This agreement was never mentioned by op, however.

 

[EyeBRollin]

60% of women in relationships while 30% of men in relationships does not determine that all women act this way. But yes, if you're in a relationship with an unfaithful person, then obviously you don't mind them being unfaithful. This agreement was never mentioned by op, however.

It literally does. The math says there is infidelity all over the place. Whether it’s “sanctioned” or not, women are sharing men. Women can have lesser men all to themselves… yet the data says this is the opposite of is actually going on.

 

[CBear]

It literally does. The math says there is infidelity all over the place. Whether it’s “sanctioned” or not, women are sharing men. Women can have lesser men all to themselves… yet the data says this is the opposite of is actually going on.

The problem with interpreting these numbers at surface level is that anyone can literally make another study that would go against your belief. Belief because it seems as if there is a perception that has been had before this study which affects the way that you see the results. The next problem is not understanding the limitations of each study, and generalizing them with the entire population.