Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tying the knot at 93 to a woman 40+years younger…

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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corsica

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He looks pretty good for 93.

Maybe they're getting married so she can inherit his pension? I have no idea how it works.
 

The Duke

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He's had some plastic surgery.


Aldrin has been married three times. His first marriage was on December 29, 1954, to Joan Archer, a Rutgers University and Columbia University alumna with a master's degree. They had three children, James, Janice and Andrew. They filed for divorce in 1974.[176][177] His second was to Beverly Van Zile, whom he married on December 31, 1975,[178] and divorced in 1978. His third was to Lois Driggs Cannon, whom he married on February 14, 1988.[179] Their divorce was finalized in December 2012. The settlement included 50 percent of their $475,000 bank account, and $9,500 a month plus 30 percent of his annual income, estimated at more than $600,000.[180][181] As of 2017, he has one grandson, Jeffrey Schuss, born to his daughter Janice, and three great-grandsons and one great-granddaughter.[182]

In 2018, Aldrin was involved in a legal dispute with his children Andrew and Janice and former business manager Christina Korp over their claims that he was mentally impaired through dementia and Alzheimer's disease. His children alleged that he made new friends who were alienating him from the family and encouraging him to spend his savings at a high rate. They sought to be named legal guardians so they could control his finances.[183] In June, Aldrin filed a lawsuit against Andrew, Janice, Korp, and businesses and foundations run by the family.[184] Aldrin alleged that Janice was not acting in his financial interests and that Korp was exploiting the elderly. He sought to remove Andrew's control of Aldrin's social media accounts, finances, and businesses. The situation ended when his children withdrew their petition and he dropped the lawsuit in March 2019, several months before the 50th anniversary of the Apollo 11 mission.[185]
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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corrector

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Celebrities and famous guys can always get girls. This is supposed to be news?
 

SargeMaximus

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I don't think buzz cares... as long as he gets his needs met, it's only money. Can't take it with you after all...
It’s sad tho. Knowing she’s only with him to feed off his carcass when he’s gone
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Slowhandluke

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It’s sad tho. Knowing she’s only with him to feed off his carcass when he’s gone
I'm sure he's fine with her going down on him while he watches matlock (or whatever old people are watching now) while yelling at kids to get off his lawn. Wouldn't we all be so lucky at such an old age. hahahahahah

If he's fine with the transactional nature of it, I don't see why he wouldn't just get high dollar escorts. Seems it would still be cheaper, they'd be younger, and not the same one...
Old people want what they want. Maybe his values do not align with escorts, but do with large age gap marriages with a younger bride that seems somewhat intelligent. I don't fault the man.
 

MatureDJ

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He looks pretty good for 93.

Maybe they're getting married so she can inherit his pension? I have no idea how it works.
Widow pensions can go on for a LONG time. :eek: :eek:
Maybe I should start using PensionGame ("at your age, you'll be receiving my SS pension until the 22nd Century")? :eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ubercat

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She s obviously wealthy enough to afford her own plastic surgery and it doesn't look cheap work.
 

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She is thinking "I only will have to take that shriveled up c0ck and deal with his wrinkly old balls for a few more years but then I'll be set for life". She is playing 4D chess in her mind.
 
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