my recent girl did this all because I fell asleep for an hour, she presumed I was playing games“my ex husband/boyfriend used to do the same **** to me and I’m not going to put up with it!”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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my recent girl did this all because I fell asleep for an hour, she presumed I was playing games“my ex husband/boyfriend used to do the same **** to me and I’m not going to put up with it!”
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yeah, you play hard to wantAny tips for how to deal with women playing hard to get?
Yeah, I’m having less and less tolerance for playing hard to get/flakey female BS as time goes on.I hear you, I honestly find PUA advice to be contradictory. I feel like unless women show interest, they don't deserve your attention, and everything else is supplicating. But for many of us, that means we won't be drawing much interest. My personal policy is grab your balls and invite her out, and if she doesn't accept, move on.
If you've matched them on an app but haven't met the in real life, see how they respond to sexual flirtation (mild at first, and then gradually increased with calibration). It's similar to using kino in a real-life setting to determine sexual interest.Any tips for how to deal with women playing hard to get? It seems in these cases we have to act more interested, pay more compliments, etc…
It’s hard to know what to do
Try my mode 1 approach as discussed in my recent thread. Were the same age and tbh I wont dont do the foxtrot and twostep with western women our age, total waste of money and there insufferable. my mode 1 approach means we have sex then we dateSo many women will act interested but then you try to set up plans and she won’t say no but won’t really say yes either. I’ve learned that anything other than a resounding YES is a waste of time, no matter the reason. If she doesn’t think she’s good enough for me/has hangups, whatever that’s her problem. NEXT
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is smack on man! I think this is most solid advice and it should have a thread on its own. Trying to understand a woman is a fool's game. Most of the time we think they are playing us or they are doing something intentionally - but we may be wrong and they are just going on about their lives.The understanding is that there is nothing to understand. Women’s nature is clouds rolling across the sky. Always changing, always moving. Just observe. Take shelter when it rains, and enjoy the sunshine. Never try to understand the clouds. They just are.
Attention Ho behavior. I was watching The Good Doctor the other day and they used the term "bread crumbing", but it was a guy doing it to a girl. I had never heard that term used before. They defined it as just giving the interested person enough to keep them on the hook. Usually because they enjoy the free attention, it's an ego boost.So many women will act interested but then you try to set up plans and she won’t say no but won’t really say yes either.
they always publicaly shame men for things that women do a billion times worse, there was a programme about catfishing the other day in the UK. I thought they were going to hold women accountable......Attention Ho behavior. I was watching The Good Doctor the other day and they used the term "bread crumbing", but it was a guy doing it to a girl. I had never heard that term used before. They defined it as just giving the interested person enough to keep them on the hook. Usually because they enjoy the free attention, it's an ego boost.
Why care at all?Im thinking what I’m going to do going forward is I don’t care how well the first date goes, how good she looks, how much fun I had, I’m just going to dump them through text after the date. Im tired of being the dumpee, it’s time to be the dumper.
Na.. A real boner means more.But voice means EVERYTHING!
The second catch is many women will fake high interestWomen who are truly interested do make it easy for you. I rarely get dates with girls who are flakey, ignore my texts, slow to respond, etc.
The catch is that unless you're an extremely high value man, you're not going to be able to only deal with high interest women.
They can be starfish in life as well as in bed.True true. I find many of these women put in almost zero dating effort then complain that they can’t find a good man.