“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That's amazing! I think the second photo is what @catsmeow2 suggested. It's in the middle, looks like a alternative dude with a edge who plays guitar but with a stable life.

All this with a simple app? Amazing time to be alife!!

Mods should definitely start a specific thread where dudes can upload profile pics and fellow members can change things. At some point you'll have all types of men; black white Asian Latin, arab ,young old fat, thin ect.

Inspirational post.
Yes, there's some amazing sh!t apps can do now a days. It's a double edge sword though because cat-fishing will no doubt get worse than what it is.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You have a happy, half down syndrome look. Get a fade and side parting, grow the beard out a bit and shape it, get the barber to do both, go to the barber every 2-3 weeks. Hit the gym. Stop smiling like that.
 

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"Stop smiling like that" what a stupid piece of advice... Stop smiling so you increase your chance to get laid, maybe.
Murk I like your posts but I can't believe you said that.
Someone’s triggered, maybe you should smile more.
 

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For "fun", here's some changes with a full beard, clean shaven and if you ever had to do it, shave down bald.

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Yeah this is what I meant in my post but with shorter sides and a parting like a pompadour kinda thing.

If I was white I would definitely rock something like this:

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a beard (even if short/ .5 length) is always good and you maintain that weekly. Be well groomed. Even more important if like OP, but unlike me, your jawline is not well defined and you don’t have dimples.
 

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1. Remove the smile. It's ok to smile and laugh when appropriate but I have found that many Women like the serious edgy look. Just my experience.

2. Tan yourself up and tone your skin.

3. See what you look like with a tighter haircut or long hair.

4. Shades may look "Douchy" and Women "say" they don't like that but that doesn't stop the "douchy" guys from getting the panties wet now does it?

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Being a "douche" is a good thing. If you are considered a "douche", you are an attractive guy who is getting vagina.
 

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Trying to figure out why I’ve been dry for two years now
Your look is ok, the issue its the vibes you send.

You look like the meme of that guy looking his computer and smiling but showing much concern.


Not saying to mock you at all, actually it's a good thing cause software problems can be solved much easier than hardware ones.
 
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Your look is ok, the issue its the vibes you send.

You look like the meme of that guy looking his computer and smiling but showing much concern.


Not saying to mock you at all, actually it's a good thing cause software problems can be solved much easier than hardware ones.
That was my first thought, but had to refrain myself from commenting.
 
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