She said she we need a time to think about

[Blacksheep]

Yesterday I had a fight with that girl I was dating. She kept doing the same **** when I asked her anything. She could not be assertive when I ask something.

I told that was very disrespectful and I wont tolerate it anymore cause she is repeating even after we talked about. She asked if that was a threat, I told no, but I was affirming I would not tolerate it anymore.

After that she became nervous, said a lot of stuffs and at the end told she need a time to think, and that time means like giving a break on our relationship. I just asked: so are you breaking up with me? She said yes.

I told, I don't believe on giving a break or time to think and said goodbye.

Today she sent me a message asking if I blocked her. I deleted her contact and didn't send anything to her. I didn't reply that message I won't reply her anymore.

I'm almost sure she did that thinking I was going to run for her and say to don't do that. But as I said, I don't believe into giving a break or a time in the relationship.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I'm not sure what you are looking for. Without any real details there isn't much to comment on.

 

[bat soup]

There's a fine line between being alpha and being a Jive Turkey.

 

[Blacksheep]

I think you made a "threat" and didn't follow through, and she called your bluff by her ending it first. I've been following Rian Stone, he has an example where he said "I won't tolerate this, and he immediately walks away"

AMS says that a 3-4 weeks break from a girl that doesn't have a lot of respect from you its good, that way she knows you'll wall away and won't tolerate things you don't like.

She gave you the opportunity for a break, maybe you start dating other women? She will definitely feel the distance and if she loves you that will kill her inside knowing that she did the breaking up while loving you

Yep, I should not made that threat. I really like her and sometimes I think I just screwed everything saying that.

Or maybe she already wants to break up but doenst have courage. Or she was just angry at that time.

I drunk too much last night, ended up on a stripper club and had sex with one of the women that work there. I know that woman, and ended up have unprotected sex. Something that there was a long time I didnt do.

It really messed with my feelings the way it happened.

 

[Blacksheep]

I'm not sure what you are looking for. Without any real details there isn't much to comment on.

Sorry, I just wrote putting out those words cause I was feeling sad about what happened.

 

[member160292]

How long were you dating?

She broke up and I fcked up

I made a last post saying that she broke up with me and tonight she called me trying to get back but I was really mad at it and didnt reply to her. Main reason was because she didnt reply my questions on a assertive way. So after that I drunk too much, went to a stripper club and fcked a woman...

www.sosuave.net

Same chick?

 

[Blacksheep]

How long were you dating?

She broke up and I fcked up

I made a last post saying that she broke up with me and tonight she called me trying to get back but I was really mad at it and didnt reply to her. Main reason was because she didnt reply my questions on a assertive way. So after that I drunk too much, went to a stripper club and fcked a woman...

www.sosuave.net

Same chick?

Yes. This first post was moments before I got drunk and post this new one.