Women: You can't tell me what to do...

[Bitcoindna]

How do you respond when women say: You can't tell me what to do...?

In my case I went on a long trip. So my main chick decided to stopp the birth control pills while I was away.

She is also on roacutane that say don't get pregnant using this medicine** ( don't want invalid children)

I come back a fu*d here 1 day after she started the pills again. I found out she must wait a week not 1 day before its safe.

So I told here to take a pregnancy test, she did not respond to that. I told here to take the test 3 times before she told me:

You can't tell me what to do"...In this case, when she is on roacutane and also told me she don't want abortion I don't see any logic where she is coming from besides masculine feminist attitude? (This is the 22 yo millionaire girl btw and yes she has a strong masculine blueprint (strong father built 14 companies) but I have made good progress making her more soft and gentle)

I can see this is a red flag to go away. She ended up taking a negativ test, but gave a lot of resistance. How would you handle it?

A combination of masculin feminist attitude and sh*t test?

 

[Zimbabwe]

They don't 'want' their husbands/boyfriends telling them what to do but have no problem being an obedient slave for their boss

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You can't be happy about her having a strong masculine presence in her life and then complain when it shows.

Can't have your cake and eat it too.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You can't be happy about her having a strong masculine presence in her life and then complain when it shows.

Can't have your cake and eat it too.

It sounds like more of a case of the girl being spoiled due to a privileged upbringing.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It sounds like more of a case of the girl being spoiled due to a privileged upbringing.

Or perhaps, you know, actually having control of her life and not doing what someone else wants them to do that they don't want to?

Why do people act as if someone is "spoiled" because they are making a decision for themselves? He has no business telling her to do anything. It's her life. If she wants to do it fine, if not fine.

In no way does making a decision for yourself make you spoiled, except by some sort of twisted weird logic whereby a woman must do anything a man tells her to which honestly sounds like some sociopath sh!t

 

[Doctor Europeo]

I dont get it. If she has that much money, what do you care if she gets preggo?

But back on topic, when the say something along the lines of "dont tell me what to do" just ask her "Excuse me?" and hold frame. Works for me.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Or perhaps, you know, actually having control of her life and not doing what someone else wants them to do that they don't want to?

Why do people act as if someone is "spoiled" because they are making a decision for themselves? He has no business telling her to do anything. It's her life. If she wants to do it fine, if not fine.

In no way does making a decision for yourself make you spoiled, except by some sort of twisted weird logic whereby a woman must do anything a man tells her to which honestly sounds like some sociopath sh!t

Pretty sure OP mentioned pregnancy concerns. That would obviously affect him as well, no?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Pretty sure OP mentioned pregnancy concerns. That would obviously affect him as well, no?

His choice ended when he didn't take proper precautions to ensure she didn't get pregnant.

That's where he had a choice. Now he doesn't.

 

[BeExcellent]

I dont get it. If she has that much money, what do you care if she gets preggo?

But back on topic, when the say something along the lines of "dont tell me what to do" just ask her "Excuse me?" and hold frame. Works for me.

My thought reading this is why worry if she gets pregnant? She is from a well off family & your child would be well cared for.

With a girl like this you’ve got to be more nuanced. You are not the boss of her and I agree with BackIntheGame on this.

 

[Jor-El]

His choice ended when he didn't take proper precautions to ensure she didn't get pregnant.

That's where he had a choice. Now he doesn't.

Exactly this. Why farm out the decision to her in the 1st place ? A very dangerous game indeed that.Whatever a woman says re her taking/using some sort of birth control ,wear a condom,or next best (but still not ideal) fire the baby batter anywhere but inside her...once she is pregnant, whatever YOU want to do re keeping/aborting is irrelevant...she can and will do whatever SHE wants to do, regardless of whatever she may have said before about not wanting a baby. YOUR choice comes at the point of conception,thats where and only where your say so on the matter is,once she is pregnant,short of taking her in the woods with a shovel,you have zero say. Fact. Avoid being reduced to hoping and begging her to get rid and 20 years of child support by taking all responsibility for birth control AT THE TIME OF SEX,no matter what she says. if she refuses condom sex,then have the balls to refuse to **** her or get the pleasure in other ways than intercourse,do that, YOU WIN

 

[bat soup]

How do you respond when women say: You can't tell me what to do...?

In my case I went on a long trip. So my main chick decided to stopp the birth control pills while I was away.

She is also on roacutane that say don't get pregnant using this medicine** ( don't want invalid children)

I come back a fu*d here 1 day after she started the pills again. I found out she must wait a week not 1 day before its safe.

So I told here to take a pregnancy test, she did not respond to that. I told here to take the test 3 times before she told me:

You can't tell me what to do"...In this case, when she is on roacutane and also told me she don't want abortion I don't see any logic where she is coming from besides masculine feminist attitude? (This is the 22 yo millionaire girl btw and yes she has a strong masculine blueprint (strong father built 14 companies) but I have made good progress making her more soft and gentle)

I can see this is a red flag to go away. She ended up taking a negativ test, but gave a lot of resistance. How would you handle it?

A combination of masculin feminist attitude and sh*t test?

This is what happens when you let them out of their cage.

 

[Bokanovsky]

His choice ended when he didn't take proper precautions to ensure she didn't get pregnant.

That's where he had a choice. Now he doesn't.

You are quickly becoming this board’s resident feminist. My body my choice, down with the patriarchy!!!!

If you don’t understand why a guy might want to have peace of mind regarding a potential pregnancy, you are either a woman or a homosexual.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You are quickly becoming this board’s resident feminist. My body my choice, down with the patriarchy!!!!

If you don’t understand why a guy might want to have peace of mind regarding a potential pregnancy, you are either a woman or a homosexual.

Oh I understand why he would want to but it's a little late for that now.

Kinda like if you get in a car and drive drunk and get pulled over by the cops. You probably wished you wouldn't have gotten behind the wheel but you are fvcked.

Aww...it bothers you that I preach accountability? Sorry. More people need it.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Oh I understand why he would want to but it's a little late for that now.

Kinda like if you get in a car and drive drunk and get pulled over by the cops. You probably wished you wouldn't have gotten behind the wheel but you are fvcked.

Aww...it bothers you that I preach accountability? Sorry. More people need it.

It bothers me that you preach, period. It seems like every annoying millennial wants to be a preacher nowadays. As if you’ve never done anything irresponsible in your life.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

You are quickly becoming this board’s resident feminist. My body my choice, down with the patriarchy!!!!

If you don’t understand why a guy might want to have peace of mind regarding a potential pregnancy, you are either a woman or a homosexual.

You left out the part where the guy had unprotected sex because it feels good and is now freaking out because he didn't reconcile the consequences of her not acting like property. If he wanted peace of mind he should have worn a love glove or talked it out with her beforehand.

How do you respond when women say: You can't tell me what to do...?

In my case I went on a long trip. So my main chick decided to stopp the birth control pills while I was away.

She is also on roacutane that say don't get pregnant using this medicine** ( don't want invalid children)

I come back a fu*d here 1 day after she started the pills again. I found out she must wait a week not 1 day before its safe.

So I told here to take a pregnancy test, she did not respond to that. I told here to take the test 3 times before she told me:

You can't tell me what to do"...In this case, when she is on roacutane and also told me she don't want abortion I don't see any logic where she is coming from besides masculine feminist attitude? (This is the 22 yo millionaire girl btw and yes she has a strong masculine blueprint (strong father built 14 companies) but I have made good progress making her more soft and gentle)

I can see this is a red flag to go away. She ended up taking a negativ test, but gave a lot of resistance. How would you handle it?

A combination of masculin feminist attitude and sh*t test?

Deliberate pregnancy scares are a trip. Now you know she might be interested in kids with you, is that so bad?

As I mentioned, reconcile internally that she may become pregnant (assuming your pull out game is weak) and choose to have it, then make the decision of whether fuucking raw is worth it to you.

With a rich man's daughter I really wouldn't mind, I'd be happy to fill her up and not worry about it since her family has the resources to give it a good life. It's an easy way to become part of a rich family, and to pass on your genes.

If a girl pushed back about taking a test I'd playfully ask if she's trying to have my kids, and gauge how serious she is about it. Personally that kind of initiative is hot to me so I'd be flattered and let her use me up.

 

[Young OG]

How do you respond when women say: You can't tell me what to do...?

In my case I went on a long trip. So my main chick decided to stopp the birth control pills while I was away.

She is also on roacutane that say don't get pregnant using this medicine** ( don't want invalid children)

I come back a fu*d here 1 day after she started the pills again. I found out she must wait a week not 1 day before its safe.

So I told here to take a pregnancy test, she did not respond to that. I told here to take the test 3 times before she told me:

You can't tell me what to do"...In this case, when she is on roacutane and also told me she don't want abortion I don't see any logic where she is coming from besides masculine feminist attitude? (This is the 22 yo millionaire girl btw and yes she has a strong masculine blueprint (strong father built 14 companies) but I have made good progress making her more soft and gentle)

I can see this is a red flag to go away. She ended up taking a negativ test, but gave a lot of resistance. How would you handle it?

A combination of masculin feminist attitude and sh*t test?

Once you find out that she’s not pregnant then kick her to the curb. When it comes to women, it’s comply or bye. She’s not being compliant. She sounds like she has a smart mouth and an attitude problem. High value men do not put up with women like this.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You left out the part where the guy had unprotected sex because it feels good and is now freaking out because he didn't reconcile the consequences of her not acting like property. If he wanted peace of mind he should have worn a love glove or talked it out with her beforehand.

Yeah that’s obvious. They both acted irresponsibly. How is that an argument against doing the pregnancy test though?

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Yeah that’s obvious. They both acted irresponsibly. How is that an argument against doing the pregnancy test though?

I mean isn't it obvious that she might want a kid or to at least have that conversation? This is her way of saying he should lead and have that talk with her, rather than boss her around like his personal toy.

It's a soft check, and sounds like he needed it. The argument isn't against doing a test, it's against his poor leadership.

 

[logicallefty]

Unfortunately a man can’t order his woman on what to do with birth control pills. But what he can do is stop having sex with her. I went through this shyt with my ex wife. Didn’t touch her for six months. Takes discipline but it’s about the only control a man can have in this fight.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

My thought reading this is why worry if she gets pregnant? She is from a well off family & your child would be well cared for.

With a girl like this you’ve got to be more nuanced. You are not the boss of her and I agree with BackIntheGame on this.

He should marry her and take half her millions in the divorce. Una de cal por mil de arena.