Veréngárda
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I'm convinced this entire thread is a bad-takeout-induced hallucination.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Where do us great guys find women like you guys?
- Thread starter DoubleBarrel
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DoubleBarrel
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BeeeeeeExxxxxxcccccceellllllleeeeeeeennnnnnttttttttt!!!
cccccccaaaaaaaatttttzzzzzzzmmmmmeeeeeeooooowwwwwwwww22222222!!!!!!
Where are ya crazy kids? Living life to the fullest, I hope, that you would disappoint your biggest fan!!!
DoubleBarrel still wants answers, in spite of all the hate and criticism he's taking for making the inquiry.
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Where are ya crazy kids? Living life to the fullest, I hope, that you would disappoint your biggest fan!!!
DoubleBarrel still wants answers, in spite of all the hate and criticism he's taking for making the inquiry.
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Doctor Europeo
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I dont think the problem is so much finding them. I think succesfully pulling them and keeping them around for the long term is the hard part. But what do I know in comparison to our high quality fermale members.
DoubleBarrel
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I'm impressed, my son. You didn't leave a it's over for SomethingCels lame ass comment on my thread. I throw temper tantrums like a high maintenance brat when I see you post them. I swear to God. It makes me think you're nothing but a silly goose.
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Damn, I got a wrong impression of you. Your "religion from god" is from the devil. You act like a woman and are not even ashamed of it.
Why do Canadians act like cartoon characters?
Why do Canadians act like cartoon characters?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DoubleBarrel
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And you have no sense of humor.
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Nobody is laughing here, my friend.And you have no sense of humor.
DoubleBarrel
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Why are you calling me your friend? You've just made it clear we're enemies now.
Doctor Europeo
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Sorry to hear that, sir. I apologize for bothering you. You r welcome to put me on ignore.I'm impressed, my son. You didn't leave a it's over for SomethingCels lame ass comment on my thread. I throw temper tantrums like a high maintenance brat when I see you post them. I swear to God. It makes me think you're nothing but a silly goose.
lost_blackbird
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BillyPilgrim
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People commonly put up a front on the internet and women, even when well-intentioned, tend to give bad dating advice.
Atom Smasher
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I’ve got the popcorn this time, gents. This promises to a good one.
DoubleBarrel
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I don't think I've given dating advice in 17+ years.
BeExcellent
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Honestly they can be anywhere. You need a set of characteristics you look for and screen for. And you need to figure out where your target woman might be found.
You’ll need to create in yourself a man worthy of the attracting the kind of woman you’d like to meet. That’s not news and you should be well aware of that. If you are currently invisible to the type of woman you want to meet then changing that is task #1. You need to be brutally honest with yourself about that.
My guy turns heads everywhere we go. His looks, his attitude, his swagger. Women flirt with him on social media, compliment him in person, and seek him out. Are you getting this kind of notice from women? If not why not? You need to remedy this first.
If you do get attention from women then you need to determine/screen whether or not these women are the type (have the characteristics you want)….
So what seems to be stopping you?
You’ll need to create in yourself a man worthy of the attracting the kind of woman you’d like to meet. That’s not news and you should be well aware of that. If you are currently invisible to the type of woman you want to meet then changing that is task #1. You need to be brutally honest with yourself about that.
My guy turns heads everywhere we go. His looks, his attitude, his swagger. Women flirt with him on social media, compliment him in person, and seek him out. Are you getting this kind of notice from women? If not why not? You need to remedy this first.
If you do get attention from women then you need to determine/screen whether or not these women are the type (have the characteristics you want)….
So what seems to be stopping you?
logicallefty
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There are good women out there still, but a website for men about women probably isn't the best place to meet them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bokanovsky
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I knew you wouldn't be able to resist even though you are responding to an obvious troll. Women are so predictable
Pierce Manhammer
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ya’ll getting messed with by probably one of our regular denizens…
The OP’s posts are like the hand book of cringe.
Someone might’ve just baited a hook for our two most outspoken female posters is another possibility…
BeExcellent
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Newsflash:I knew you wouldn't be able to resist even though you are responding to an obvious troll. Women are so predictable
So are men!! (Grins & rolls eyes)
Pierce Manhammer
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BillyPilgrim
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AWALT much more so than AMALT. The greater genetic diversity in men is why they hold 85% of the genius-level IQs despite the average intelligence levels between the genders being roughly equal. This is the main reason why they run things (more so than physical strength, stoicism or lack of pregnancy).
I'm not convinced OP is a troll. Canadians can be a funny bunch. DB is out there in Winnipeg, the most isolated and coldest city in North America. It's basically a polar research station that happens to have women.
I'm not convinced OP is a troll. Canadians can be a funny bunch. DB is out there in Winnipeg, the most isolated and coldest city in North America. It's basically a polar research station that happens to have women.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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