Suave88
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
We now know how an incel looks like.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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There are so many WMAF couples around that I don't buy it that he can't get an Asian gf. He doesn't even look much worst than @European-DJ and he's killing it online. Did he even bother setting up a profile? I don't see anything wrong with him physically.
Suave88
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You don't, but some women do. Specially if they are mainly in college trying to meet future husband. In fact, I find him ugly, wtf. If I knew him in person I wouldn't tell him so, not because I am affraid but because I m polite. What is more, I think he looks like a country rat. However, I dont believe he is the typical incel, and or that all incels look like him. The sad thing about is that if he has really done all of it, jail wont solve his problem, nor what he was attempting to do, if it is true. He just fked up his life because of women. In addition, I wonder why no one could have couch him? Where is father and where is mother? What about friends?
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BackInTheGame78
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There are plenty of dudes that look just like him banging women. It's not his looks holding him back from that it's his mindset.
He isn't great looking but he isn't like a 1 either.
He isn't great looking but he isn't like a 1 either.
European-DJ
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This guy is obviously mentally unstable, which doesn’t help with getting girls.
As I say in all my other posts: good chat is key. With good chat below average looking guys can bed HB8s. HB9s and above are a bit more challenging as a number of them are superficial anyway, but remember that a HB5 per definition is average / a plain Jane, so when I say HB8 I mean good looking girls you would check out if you walked past them in Public
As I say in all my other posts: good chat is key. With good chat below average looking guys can bed HB8s. HB9s and above are a bit more challenging as a number of them are superficial anyway, but remember that a HB5 per definition is average / a plain Jane, so when I say HB8 I mean good looking girls you would check out if you walked past them in Public
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.