Jake_Gyllenhaal69
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
People without real life experience, especially incels and dudes who do not go out, will say that some Chad gets a lot of girls. The reality is that most Chads have enough validation from their looks to not really pursue a lot of girls. Majority of the ones I knew ended up in an LTR fast with a woman just a point or two below them. The other thing I notice is that so many eyes are on a Chad that society almost shames him in some weird way for getting around and it takes a special type of Dark Triad personality to get over all of that.
Yeah this Chad boogeyman tactic is completely overblown. Women submit to them pretty aggressively, so he is less likely to be spinning plates and hunting around. I think the reason for this is because this guy isn't hot enough to get full submission from an attractive girl, but he has the looks too good for average girls. This puts him in that crappy medium level where he's constantly fighting. His only option is to date around and spin plates because of his experience.If I had to describe a guy who gets laid a lot from my experience, he usually looks a certain way. You can tell that genetically he is not the most blessed but kind of average. He spends a lot of time at the gym and on self-improvement. The guy also shoots his shot, a lot and by that I mean a lot. From my experience, these kinds of dudes got laid the most and had the highest lay counts. They had an assertive go getter personality to make up for their lack of top notch genetics and they put in the work to be good looking enough.