"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anyone try ShowOffMyBankAccountGame?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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RickTheToad
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I agree that it isn't enough to impress. The two accounts combined have under $95,000. If that's the entirety of his net worth, that's not enough to impress, even in a low class bar in Kentucky or West Virginia.my opinion: You've got to have 7 figures before this game will work; this guy is not even up to 6.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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You're NOT going to get me to gush over "hot" harridans like he had, though.
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@MatureDJ once had a job that took him to Phoenix for 6+ months in the early 2000s.
This is the only place I've ever seen the word 'harridan' used. I think I had to look up a definition the first time I saw it used here.You're NOT going to get me to gush over "hot" harridans like he had, though.
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Once every 22 years.. Hmm....
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The woman looks disgusted with him