She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No but this is what the streets of Toronto are likeDid this happen in Toronto?
Wow.. That is brutal.
Absolutely brutal
Japan, obviously.Did this happen in Toronto?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I know how Toronto looks like, I am from there. There is a strong Asian presence here who worship white men (but I guess that goes with other ethnics here too). But I digress, that can be anywhere in the world. Guess that makes me partially ethnicel (25-50% on that).No but this is what the streets of Toronto are like
Everytime I went to Toronto I was up to my knees in black girls and white girls. The black girls in particular were some of the hottest I’ve ever seen in my life. The white girls in Toronto seemed to have a thing for American black men.I know how Toronto looks like, I am from there. There is a strong Asian presence here who worship white men (but I guess that goes with other ethnics here too). But I digress, that can be anywhere in the world. Guess that makes me partially ethnicel (25-50% on that).
Yes, I know that, but that does not help if you get Yellow fever. Thankfully I only have a very mild temperature.Everytime I went to Toronto I was up to my knees in black girls and white girls. The black girls in particular were some of the hottest I’ve ever seen in my life. The white girls in Toronto seemed to have a thing for American black men.
Isn't that an offensive term?Yes, I know that, but that does not help if you get Yellow fever.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
In what way?Isn't that an offensive term?
I'm not the woke police, go put it on Twitter and see what they say to you.In what way?
Can you explain why I would care to write something like that on Twitter? My use of Twitter is very functional. Government announcements. Where to apply for X,Y, Z. Complaints against corporation. I have no time for games on Twitter.I'm not the woke police, go put it on Twitter and see what they say to you.
Is your current gf Asian?zekko said:I like Asian girls though, and if someone accused me of having "yellow fever", I would find it offensive.
Like you said "as feminists would say". You've said that in your own line. Why would I care what feminists have to think?zekko said:Because it implies you have a fetish for a particular race, and reduces the girl to something less than human, a sex object as the feminists would say. And what would that say about me? Again, I like Asian girls, but IMO a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, whatever race she might be.
Twitter is a well known place where people get triggered easily. If the term is offensive, that would be a good place to find out. But I'm only guessing, I don't use Twitter. My girlfriend is not Asian, and I am not a feminist but be disappointed if you must. I still think it's an iffy term, because it implies the only reason you would be going out with a particular girl is because of her race.Can you explain why I would care to write something like that on Twitter?
If you believe it implies that then its a subjective interpretation. I don't think it implies that at all. Remember, I'm not going out with any women in the first place so I'm going to talk strictly in terms of what I think is sexy. That has nothing to do with any dating decisions, if I ever have such an opportunity in the first place.Twitter is a well known place where people get triggered easily. If the term is offensive, that would be a good place to find out. But I'm only guessing, I don't use Twitter. My girlfriend is not Asian, and I am not a feminist but be disappointed if you must. I still think it's an iffy term, because it implies the only reason you would be going out with a particular girl is because of her race.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah hard to find a place where easily triggered people attend than twitter.Twitter is a well known place where people get triggered easily. If the term is offensive, that would be a good place to find out. But I'm only guessing, I don't use Twitter. My girlfriend is not Asian, and I am not a feminist but be disappointed if you must. I still think it's an iffy term, because it implies the only reason you would be going out with a particular girl is because of her race.
They but man, the quality of white women in Toronto leaves quite a lot to be desired. Some of the trashiest women in North America and clout chasers through the roof while barely having the looks to back it up. Montreal on the other hand....Everytime I went to Toronto I was up to my knees in black girls and white girls. The black girls in particular were some of the hottest I’ve ever seen in my life. The white girls in Toronto seemed to have a thing for American black men.
Nothing wrong with saying Asian Fever. Who cares about being offensive? I hardly find it offensive. You like what you like. Using tw!tter as a basis for anything is kind of...lol. A platform that censors as much as that one does is degenerative to society and reduces any opportunities for honest discussion. So who cares what some tw!tter softies think.I'm not the woke police, go put it on Twitter and see what they say to you.
I like Asian girls though, and if someone accused me of having "yellow fever", I would find it offensive. Because it implies you have a fetish for a particular race, and reduces the girl to something less than human, a sex object as the feminists would say. And what would that say about me? Again, I like Asian girls, but IMO a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, whatever race she might be.
Now I don't mean offensive like I would punch someone in the mouth if they said it to me, but I would consider it inappropriate.
Dudes don't choose Asian girls just because of their race. They choose them because Asian girls are more likely to have the qualities that men desire. IMO, they're a good balance of feminine attractiveness and personality traits desirable to men. I'm pretty sure if a stupid dirty Asian b!tch came up to a dude, he wouldn't pick her just because she's Asian. It's just that, Asian chicks in general are more likely to have what we want.I still think it's an iffy term, because it implies the only reason you would be going out with a particular girl is because of her race.
I may watch it someday but I'm in no hurry to. The problem is I am a huge Tolkien fan and I want to see the story followed, but Amazon doesn't even have the license to tell the story they're telling. They have the license to the appendices of the Lord of the Rings, which gives a sketch of the story, but not the fleshed out version. So they're doing the fleshing out themselves, making up characters, injecting modern politics, and including plot points that happened a thousand years apart in the books but depicting them as if they happened all at once.Cant really comment on the "rings of power" cause I'm not planning to see it but I can imagine how they could review my review.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.