“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

What is a F**kboi?

will123

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
116
Reaction score
18
What is a f**kboi?

Is it bad or good? Is it another word for a player?

How do they behave? How can a woman identify them?


Sorry if it is dumb question.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,463
Reaction score
18,515
Someone who a woman knows isn't someone she can take seriously and only uses him for sex.

It's derogatory because the woman looks at him as if he isn't to be taken seriously as a man outside the bedroom, versus someone who is termed a player which simply means they date multiple women but won't commit to any of them.
 

will123

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
116
Reaction score
18
Someone who a woman knows isn't someone she can take seriously and only uses him for sex.

It's derogatory because the woman looks at him as if he isn't to be taken seriously as a man outside the bedroom, versus someone who is termed a player which simply means they date multiple women but won't commit to any of them.
Okay.

I've read it means the man messes with the woman's emotions, gives mixed signals, is emotionally distant and doesn't commit. Is that accurate?

Can women spot f**kboys and players before being "used"?
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,432
Reaction score
12,528
So it a compliment to be referred to as a f**kboy?
So it's nothing to worry about if called it? LOl
Nothing to worry about. Many men aspire to that. You're getting sex from her but you're not committing to a monogamous relationship with her.

I've read it means the man messes with the woman's emotions, gives mixed signals, is emotionally distant and doesn't commit. Is that accurate?
Women are known for doing all those things to men, especially the ones who are active on swipe apps. The era of the clingy girlfriend is over for the most part, unless you're a very high value man. Women have such abundance these days due to social media and swipe apps. We could say that fucckboys give women a taste of their own medicine.

Can women spot f**kboys and players before being "used"?
Not entirely. This is what happens when you operate on emotions, or "all the feelz" as Millennial and Gen Z women would say.
 

will123

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
116
Reaction score
18
Is there a difference between a ****boy and a player or are they used interchangeably
 

IKO69

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2005
Messages
1,184
Reaction score
1,087
Age
43
Location
Miami, FL
One of those things women try to pass off as an insult but in actuality they love those types of guys. It basically a guy who is good with women (a player).

I once tried to mack on a girl at a friend's party. She told me she had a boyfriend. To dispel the awkwardness, I laughed it off and said she should catch up, I have two girlfriends (at the time I had none, was single). She was not pleased to say the least and rolled her eyes lol. I heard later from friend she ask about me and say comes across as **** boy. Months later I saw her again at other party, she didn't have boyfriend and to make long story short we mess around for a few months.
 

will123

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
116
Reaction score
18
If they think you are a ****boi and just sleep around, will attraction go down?
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,432
Reaction score
12,528
If they think you are a ****boi and just sleep around, will attraction go down?
Only if the woman is a hardcore provider hunter who is seeking men slightly more beta, which does not typically happen for women until ages 32-36.

Five minutes of alpha beats five years of beta.
 

Doctor Europeo

Moderator
Joined
Mar 6, 2017
Messages
4,295
Reaction score
4,662
Location
Mexico
Someone who a woman knows isn't someone she can take seriously and only uses him for sex.

It's derogatory because the woman looks at him as if he isn't to be taken seriously as a man outside the bedroom, versus someone who is termed a player which simply means they date multiple women but won't commit to any of them.
Derogatory? When a girl who is into me accusses me of being a f0ckboi I have always taken it as a compliment.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Grounded eagle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 10, 2020
Messages
533
Reaction score
626
Age
28
If they think you are a ****boi and just sleep around, will attraction go down?
If attraction went down,then how would you be sleeping around?

Players are players because women keep choosing them.
 
Last edited:

manfrombelow

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2021
Messages
1,715
Reaction score
2,206
Age
36
Fvckboi is a guy who is chosen by women to fvck them but in return he doesn't choose to make them LTR, hence they get pissed off.

So, nothing wrong with being a fvckboi
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,463
Reaction score
18,515
Derogatory? When a girl who is into me accusses me of being a f0ckboi I have always taken it as a compliment.
I don't view it that way...it's basically like you have nothing else going for you other than that
 

HaleyBaron

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2021
Messages
2,680
Reaction score
2,269
What is a f**kboi?

Is it bad or good? Is it another word for a player?

How do they behave? How can a woman identify them?


Sorry if it is dumb question.
Rule #1: Never listen to what a woman says. Always what she does. She has ****bois on her rotation. It's a synonym for player. Roll with it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top