"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dementia and physical abuse. Advice on how to get someone committed who doesn't want to be helped

Kotaix

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Off topic here,

The father of one of my friends is in a situation where his wife has dementia and has gotten to the stage where she's becoming violent. She refuses to get any kind of help or acknowledge that she has a problem, and he has deteriorated to the point where he is no longer in the physical condition to do anything about her. Anyone know of any kind of legal recourse my friend might have to getting this woman away from her husband before she either kills him or does something terrible?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Off topic here,

The father of one of my friends is in a situation where his wife has dementia and has gotten to the stage where she's becoming violent. She refuses to get any kind of help or acknowledge that she has a problem, and he has deteriorated to the point where he is no longer in the physical condition to do anything about her. Anyone know of any kind of legal recourse my friend might have to getting this woman away from her husband before she either kills him or does something terrible?
Is the wife vaccinated? If so, N-Acetyl Cysteine and pine needle tea can help.
 

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Well you can call the cops ask for community services and explain to the officer what’s going on, that you’d like to get her 5150’d, which is a psych hold at a hospital.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kotaix

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Well you can call the cops ask for community services and explain to the officer what’s going on, that you’d like to get her 5150’d, which is a psych hold at a hospital.
Thanks, this was extremely helpful. 5150 is a california-only code, but all states have a similar statute.
 
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