Workplace Romantic drama

[Pandora]

A girl in her mid 20's at my workplace is dating someone in management. We warned her not to do it but she did it anyway. The "relationship" very quickly imploded. Our fears were correct. It is causing chaos in the work environment. I asked her why she did it. She said " I just love love". She also added " i feel so stupid" and he "was not even my usual type".


This reaffirms a couple basic premises that we already know.
1.) These creatures are in love with limerence. That feeling is highly addictive to them. The more daddy issues they have ( this girl has many), the more they will confuse limerence with real love. They have no model for male love outside of romantic love. Once the limerence fades then they are gone.

2.) Never ever take their mate selection personally. They are not choosing based on good standards. They very quickly regret their decision. It is based on faulty logic, logical fallacies and pure emotion. Often times even their friends are left scratching their heads at the decision. Civilizations fall because we place women solely in charge of their mating choices.

Never care about what the female thinks about you. The real honor is when they father thinks you are a good man. The daughter is a mental midget.

 

[SW15]

2.) Never ever take their mate selection personally. They are not choosing based on good standards. They very quickly regret their decision. It is based on faulty logic, logical fallacies and pure emotion. Often times even their friends are left scratching their heads at the decision. Civilizations fall because we place women solely in charge of their mating choices.

I'd agree not to take it personally but if you are being rejected by every woman, that's problematic.

Never care about what the female thinks about you. The real honor is when they father thinks you are a good man. The daughter is a mental midget.

In most interactions, the relationship will cease before the father is met. It's possible to have a 1 year relationship with a woman and never meet her father if she lives in a different city that is more than a few hours drive away.

 

[Mike32ct]

She also knew that there are no consequences for her if she hooks up with a manager. As a guy and a superior, he’s the one in deep shyte now, not her.

 

[IKO69]

A lot of women are stupid and don't know how to pick guys. They will turn away all the right guys and then wonder why things don't out right.

The coworker is probably the type of woman who sucks at her job and sucks up to management to get by. It's probably how she has gotten by in life up until now.

 

[devilkingx2]

A girl in her mid 20's at my workplace is dating someone in management. We warned her not to do it but she did it anyway. The "relationship" very quickly imploded. Our fears were correct. It is causing chaos in the work environment. I asked her why she did it. She said " I just love love". She also added " i feel so stupid" and he "was not even my usual type".

She sounds like she's purposefully playing the victim, I think she's trying to downplay her actions/decisions.

A 25 year old who works at an office in a real career job just blows it all up without thinking? If she's mentally 14 how did she even get the job.

(I assume it's a real career job because obviously if this is minimum wage retail there wouldn't be any drama.)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She also knew that there are no consequences for her if she hooks up with a manager. As a guy and a superior, he’s the one in deep shyte now, not her.

Of course...the manager is always the one on the hook for this stuff, guy or girl.

 

[Robert28]

I'd agree not to take it personally but if you are being rejected by every woman, that's problematic.



In most interactions, the relationship will cease before the father is met. It's possible to have a 1 year relationship with a woman and never meet her father if she lives in a different city that is more than a few hours drive away.

It’s not THAT I get rejected, it’s the dumbass reasons for being rejected. Maybe you said something you didn’t realize came across the wrong way because she waited to tell you months later OR she didn’t even tell you but made it a point to tell her friends and you find out later. So you had no chance to explain or fix it because she couldn’t be an adult and talk to you like a normal person. Or maybe they acted like they liked you for weeks and several dates and all because you didn’t pick up one of their not obvious signals they suddenly lost attraction and interest because you aren’t a mind reader. No, instead they’d rather throw away something promising over something so trivial or stupid. Fvck these women and fvck this dumb hoe. She will continue to make stupid mistakes and I’m glad to see it happen because she deserves all the bad karma that’s coming her way later on.

 

[bat soup]

A girl in her mid 20's at my workplace is dating someone in management. We warned her not to do it but she did it anyway. The "relationship" very quickly imploded. Our fears were correct. It is causing chaos in the work environment. I asked her why she did it. She said " I just love love". She also added " i feel so stupid" and he "was not even my usual type".


This reaffirms a couple basic premises that we already know.
1.) These creatures are in love with limerence. That feeling is highly addictive to them. The more daddy issues they have ( this girl has many), the more they will confuse limerence with real love. They have no model for male love outside of romantic love. Once the limerence fades then they are gone.

2.) Never ever take their mate selection personally. They are not choosing based on good standards. They very quickly regret their decision. It is based on faulty logic, logical fallacies and pure emotion. Often times even their friends are left scratching their heads at the decision. Civilizations fall because we place women solely in charge of their mating choices.

Never care about what the female thinks about you. The real honor is when they father thinks you are a good man. The daughter is a mental midget.

I would avoid getting involved. I wouldn't give advice or care who someone chooses if its not me.

 

[jaymbrs]

I used to date/sleep with women in the workplace A LOT but that's when I was a lower level employee and tended to date up. Now I'm in management and know way better than to **** around with these types of women.

 

[Pandora]

I would avoid getting involved. I wouldn't give advice or care who someone chooses if its not me.

I told her that we should not date because it will get messy. But we flirted with the idea and fraternized outside of work.

 

[Pandora]

She sounds like she's purposefully playing the victim, I think she's trying to downplay her actions/decisions.

A 25 year old who works at an office in a real career job just blows it all up without thinking? If she's mentally 14 how did she even get the job.

(I assume it's a real career job because obviously if this is minimum wage retail there wouldn't be any drama.)

Yeh it's a career type job and yes I don't get it either. Some girls just are wrapped up in the emotions of "love". They become intoxicated and made stupid decisions.

 

[Plinco]

Like I've said before, unless you don't care about your job, don't mess around with women in the workplace.

I used to work a job that I didn't care for too much, and so I hooked up with a couple of girls there, but I've kept it professional everywhere else I've worked.