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Women slot themselves if you let them. The key is not to give them a promotion , but to let them earn it.

Sounds like you didn't have a lot invested in her, so another lesson learned...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

spred

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Women slot themselves if you let them. The key is not to give them a promotion , but to let them earn it.

Sounds like you didn't have a lot invested in her, so another lesson learned...
Yes indeed. I still made mistakes (acting weak and beta as time went by), but with low investment I was able to see more clear her tests and my mistakes (corrected some).
After yesterdays “mutual” agreement to stop dating, today she restricted me on social media (where she has nothing) and deleted her job on LinkedIn (we are still connected).

These actions should have been made by me, the nominal “beta”, not by her!
 

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Just a complete and utter attention wh*re

After all that time, If she wouldn’t at least kiss me passionately on the first date I would drop her right away. Paradoxically, if you give in to their sexual resistance, they’ll reject you for being too nice.
 
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