“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Girl says "I'm down, if you're willing to buy me food lol"

GreatHornedOwl

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This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

Thoughts?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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GreatHornedOwl

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Had a few drinks. Was there for maybe an hour. Walked her to her car. Hugged, and kissed for a few seconds.

It usually takes this chick 1-2 hours to respond, every time. She's only quicker when we're about to meet up.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Had a few drinks. Was there for maybe an hour. Walked her to her car. Hugged, and kissed for a few seconds.
I probably would just ignore her after that until she chases me because right now she’s making herself the prize as if she’s worth the free meal and you have to pay for her to spend time with you. You can also straight up tell her you won’t pay for someone you just met. I’m pretty forward when it comes to women and money. I do pay at times but not if they’re ****s about it.
 

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This would be our second date. First was drinks, then I suggested a Mexican place and she responded with that. Maybe she's just flirting, I'm not sure. Her response kind of rubbed me the wrong way.

Thoughts?
Seems sketch. But maybe she has a quirky sense of humor.
 

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Sext with the girl if you haven't already (and even if you have since it's been a month). Send her a pic of a cucumber with the caption "Dessert" and see what she says. But with no sexual flirtation, only a kiss on the first date, and a month later, this is a low-quality date.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I wonder if this is her prerequisite for sleeping with you. She needs a meal, so she doesn't give it away for free, and feel like a wh0re.

Edit: I think billy's response is good. That might give you some insight as to whether what I pondered is possible.
If that’s the case she sees op as beta
 

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Me: Grab something to eat, then back to my place?
Her: For what? lmao
Me: That's where we have dessert
Her: lol, sounds good but I have to work Saturday morning :(
 

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That could be. What about not being chad-like enough to break all of her rules, but enough to spread her legs after one meal?

Edit: After reading the above post, disregard my post.
Lol yeah. My basic rule is this: unless she plays by your rules she sees you as a beta. Unfortunately most girls will see a guy like me as beta but it is what it is. I’m not into changing minds or playing their games and by doing that, I retain my sovereignty
 

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Your over here wanting sex out of her, but can't get her no darn food? People's time isnt free. Heck i would turn down hanging out (espeically with people I barley know) if food wasn't involved even as a man :rofl:. Was her tone rude or snippy? If you don't want to do it, leave it alone and let someone else take care of her, valentines day is around the corner women are gonna be expecting a hand and leg.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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