“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Am I right in thinking women dont write positive songs about men?

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I was thinking earlier, male artists still write the most pathetic songs daily that would get you finessed in 2021

Where as female artists dont write any songs simping for men, I literally cant think of one in the last 20 years..

Carly Simon "nobody does it better"
Also SOS band dropped red pill after red pill.#

these are all decades old though

your thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm not really qualified to speak on the past twenty years of music (I'm not only old, but more recent music seems a bit too 'manufactured' to me).

The trends that you mention are interesting.
Women aren't typically interested in hearing "happy music" by other women. Instead, they seem to prefer some male singing about his adoration for a woman.

If we go back to the 1950's (and this was before my time btw) . We had male musicians that were singing mainstream songs like "Hard Headed Woman" but by the early to mid 60's, attitudes changed into mainstream songs like "I Wanna Hold Your Hand." For the record (no pun intended) there was still an underground 1960's garage music scene that still maintained a more traditional view about male/female relationships.

Something I've always wondered (anyone feel free to chime in with an opinion).
Did music shape current attitudes .... or was music a reflection of current attitudes?
 

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That's my vote.

People write songs that sell well, and songs that sell well tend to pace what people are already thinking.
So mens thinking hasnt changed much for 50 years, we had a period from 85-95 where they dropped some pimp songs that truly reflect female nature, most songs would be considered blue pill?
 

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I was thinking earlier, male artists still write the most pathetic songs daily that would get you finessed in 2021

Where as female artists dont write any songs simping for men, I literally cant think of one in the last 20 years..

Carly Simon "nobody does it better"
Also SOS band dropped red pill after red pill.#

these are all decades old though

your thoughts?
If a woman wrote a positive song about a man, or if a man wrote a song about a more functional relationship, do you think the music industry, who are connected to the elite apparatus, would promote it? I think the answer is no. Perhaps one should look to independent artists if you are looking for positive songs about relationships.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a woman wrote a positive song about a man, or if a man wrote a song about a more functional relationship, do you think the music industry, who are connected to the elite apparatus, would promote it? I think the answer is no. Perhaps one should look to independent artists if you are looking for positive songs about relationships.
Quite the contrary, Im merely interested in how men are conditioned and viewed.
 

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Quite the contrary, Im merely interested in how men are conditioned and viewed.
Of course the corporate elite want to get rid of men. Music with its rhythm has the ability to tap into a person's subconscious, so it's effective. How much a person buys into this depends on the person.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Taylor Swift wrote a song about some alpha male who banged her and didn't commit. The lyrics are below.

 

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What I think is actually right, and this is my special theory...

Women can only write songs with regard to another man. Men can write songs just about anything without having to refer to a woman, while women can't write one unless a man is still mentioned or somehow related to.
 

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I'm not really qualified to speak on the past twenty years of music (I'm not only old, but more recent music seems a bit too 'manufactured' to me).

The trends that you mention are interesting.
Women aren't typically interested in hearing "happy music" by other women. Instead, they seem to prefer some male singing about his adoration for a woman.

If we go back to the 1950's (and this was before my time btw) . We had male musicians that were singing mainstream songs like "Hard Headed Woman" but by the early to mid 60's, attitudes changed into mainstream songs like "I Wanna Hold Your Hand." For the record (no pun intended) there was still an underground 1960's garage music scene that still maintained a more traditional view about male/female relationships.

Something I've always wondered (anyone feel free to chime in with an opinion).
Did music shape current attitudes .... or was music a reflection of current attitudes?
The last bit needs an own thread .
 

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I am 100% convinced it was the record holders that changed the music culture. I remember numerous songs from male artists, both black and white, from rap to pop, where the men were far more critical of women. They called out gold diggers, cheaters, time wasters, you name it.

"She take my money when I'm in need
Yeah, she's a triflin' friend indeed
Oh, she's a gold digger
Way over town, that digs on me"


They had a very hard boiled attitude to it. Then a shift occurred, and suddenly there was a lot more love songs. This was deliberate cause the focus groups were going toward more female minded consumers, much like a lot of the entertainment industry. So all the male focused stuff got basically purged. And replaced with a simplistic formula of "love you baby." But it hasn't stopped people online from making original content.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wait a minute… I guess I’m pretty thick and don’t understand the current language of modern day videos, but who is that guy who comes in at the end? Was she just fantasizing about this “good one”?
 

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I don't know if this is true currently or not, but it would be rather telling if it is.
Because I remember the girl groups of the 50s and 60s, they used to have a lot of songs praising some guy. Songs like Leader of the Pack, Angel Baby, One Fine Day, etc. Many were written by women or a combination of women and men.

It wouldn't surprise me if things have turned negative, the way feminism has screwed up value perceptions and gender roles.
 

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This is one of the most interesting posts I have ever seen, it really got me thinking. I honestly can't recall women singing positive modern songs about men, it's almost always something negative but the reverse is the opposite.

It really goes to show how accepted misandry is in the west.
 

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I honestly can't recall women singing positive modern songs about men, it's almost always something negative but the reverse is the opposite.
Im glad you can see it, theres been about 5 songs already with this week on the radio with men simping in the lyrics.

Also I took my daughter to Birmingham. And there was perfume adverts everywhere, saying "God is a woman" .

The ideology gravy train is non stop
 

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They do, but these songs won't make the pop 'top 40' charts. Usually it's dysfunctional, Taylor Swift complaining about her ex boyfriend type songs. That resonates much more with the younger crowed, which is telling.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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