"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok this is scary... (Women and fakeup)

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ehh not really

The ugly fat girls on there are still ugly with all that makeup on.

The only one that I thought was hot was this one with all the makeup.

And even after removing her makeup. Waking up next to her the next day, I'd still want to fvck the sh1t outta her. Especially if she's got an ass to go with her skin color
 

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Ehh not really

The ugly fat girls on there are still ugly with all that makeup on.

The only one that I thought was hot was this one with all the makeup.

And even after removing her makeup. Waking up next to her the next day, I'd still want to fvck the sh1t outta her. Especially if she's got an ass to go with her skin color
Thats just one of many tho.

Using makeup is somewhat a double edged sword as the "product sold" to use marketing terms is not often what you get in the end of the day. Vetting girls on their looks can sometimes be tricky as they are damn good at hiding their true natural looks.

The less they have the better in my opinion as the real good looking girls do not need it really.
 
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Are you guys shocked ?

My ex slept with her makeup on for 3 months when we first met

They know the second you see their bare face the entire power struggle swings back into the mans favour

I would implore any man to take a good hard look at any plate , girlfriend or a LTR without any makeup on

Usually you will find her allure will completely diminish , hold that picture in your mind and it will serve you in good stead
 

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That is actually a trend. I wouldn't categorize this as 100% catfishing since they are at least being upfront with the before and after, I would call it body dysmorphia.

There is this pretty famous girl on tik-tok that has no teeth and is not stellar looking that has this pretty nice body and when she puts on makeup, fake teeth, etc she looks what social media would call gorgeous. I think she calls it to shake my beauty or something.

Either way, to your point it is scary. Terrifying if they are not being honest about what they look like naturally. 100% misleading and psychologically alarming.

That is one of my high standards. I am not opposed to women wearing makeup, but:

1) Look natural 90% of the time you are with me. Especially the first few times we meet.
2) Minimal makeup if she is to wear it

If you are that type of woman that likes a lot of makeup and wears it almost every day, it's all good, you do you boo, but I am not your man. There is the door.


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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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That is actually a trend. I wouldn't categorize this as 100% catfishing since they are at least being upfront with the before and after, I would call it body dysmorphia.

There is this pretty famous girl on tik-tok that has no teeth and is not stellar looking that has this pretty nice body and when she puts on makeup, fake teeth, etc she looks what social media would call gorgeous. I think she calls it to shake my beauty or something.

Either way, to your point it is scary. Terrifying if they are not being honest about what they look like naturally. 100% misleading and psychologically alarming.

That is one of my high standards. I am not opposed to women wearing makeup, but:

1) Look natural 90% of the time you are with me. Especially the first few times we meet.
2) Minimal makeup if she is to wear it

If you are that type of woman that likes a lot of makeup and wears it almost every day, it's all good, you do you boo, but I am not your man. There is the door.


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Wow. Some real ugly b!tches dude.. Real ugly, inside and out!
 

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I wouldn't categorize this as 100% catfishing since they are at least being upfront with the before and after, I would call it body dysmorphia.
I would call it false marketing. :devil:
It's like announcing a product that isn't real. You could in theory even go as call lying or deception.

I recall that there was this case a few years back where a guy actually got away with suing his wife and g because she basically had made so much surgery that once they got their first kid he could see the huge difference.

Amazingly judge actually agreed, (amazingly because judges normally in 99.9% of all family law cases do not side with the male), that she had deceived him and legally annulled the marriage.

So he won the whole case.

A bit harsh yes, but on the flipside she had no been honest to him at all from the inception of their relationship.
 

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Ehh not really

The ugly fat girls on there are still ugly with all that makeup on.

The only one that I thought was hot was this one with all the makeup.

And even after removing her makeup. Waking up next to her the next day, I'd still want to fvck the sh1t outta her. Especially if she's got an ass to go with her skin color
I would also happily smash this without makeup she's hot
 

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Google "transvestite makeup before and after"

This is what I'm talking about when I say most girls are actually ugly without makeup on. It's all an act. It's their only worth so they exaggerate it.

You NEVER know what a girl looks like by looking at a picture.
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Google "transvestite makeup before and after"

This is what I'm talking about when I say most girls are actually ugly without makeup on. It's all an act. It's their only worth so they exaggerate it.

You NEVER know what a girl looks like by looking at a picture.
Its never stops to fascinate me how much makeup can change and alter a persons appearance.

This thing with trannys tho makes it even more freaky as some are so good at it that they could fool you for a real girl. Aka the nightmare scenario of must guys including myself and what Stu expedience in the video clip from hangover below ha ha.

 

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Its never stops to fascinate me how much makeup can change and alter a persons appearance.

This thing with trannys tho makes it even more freaky as some are so good at it that they could fool you for a real girl. Aka the nightmare scenario of must guys including myself and what Stu expedience in the video clip from hangover below ha ha.

I was in Bangkok and chatted with a ladyboy for about 5 minutes before asking if "she" was a real girl. He told me no, so I left. I almost felt like I was offending her by asking, but good thing I did lol.

Wait... You had sex with a tranny on accident?!

I heard of a guy who went to jail in Thailand for beating the sh1t out of a ladyboy after finding out it was a guy.
 

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Wait... You had sex with a tranny on accident?!
No. But its a big nightmare that you might make a move on one by mistake and come as far as make out (believing its a girl).
My gaydar is usually very good at catching these.

But some are really hard to spot because they are such a naturals at playing their role + their makeup etc etc.
 

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No. But its a big nightmare that you might make a move on one by mistake and come as far as make out (believing its a girl).
My gaydar is usually very good at catching these.

But some are really hard to spot because they are such a naturals at playing their role + their makeup etc etc.
That's why I only go in the go-go bars marked "real girls only."

I already know I wouldn't be able to tell. Also the massage parlors during daytime are always female.

But I would never get anyone off the street in Thailand in the RLD.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oddly enough, there are some women who naturally look good without makeup, but still wear a ton of it and somehow manage to look worse with it than without it.

Are you guys shocked ?

My ex slept with her makeup on for 3 months when we first met

They know the second you see their bare face the entire power struggle swings back into the mans favour

I would implore any man to take a good hard look at any plate , girlfriend or a LTR without any makeup on

Usually you will find her allure will completely diminish , hold that picture in your mind and it will serve you in good stead
Ask them to take a shower with you, or go swimming. Problem solved.
 

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Oddly enough, there are some women who naturally look good without makeup, but still wear a ton of it
The irony of makeup is that it feeds insecurity about your true self as it on the same time acts like a ego confidence booster while wearing it.

A doubled edge sword it indeed it is. This is also why even some top of the line Victoria's secrets models can be extremely insecure about themselves when they are not wearing this crap.
 
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