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I live in an area of about 150k-200k people. Mostly retired people. That and the fact that I work a lot (6 am to 10 pm was getting normal for me the last several months) makes it hard to meet anyone. I’ve met a few from OLD but never works out.

Decided to pay for a month on tinder to get passport. Just picking different places around the world and in 2 days I’ve gotten over 50 matches pretty much all hotter than any girl I’ve ever dated. So overwhelmed I’ve only messaged a few of them. Now I know what it’s like to be a woman on tinder.
 

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150k-200k metro area size is decent IF you have the right demographics, which you don't. While I don't recommend any areas of less than 100k population, 150k-200k is the minimum to be large enough to have some selection.

Expatriating from the United States to another nation is difficult. I looked into a South American expatriation in the late 2000s but I was having issues navigating the whole work authorization thing. Once Bear Stearns and Lehman collapsed and the economy really went bad, I stopped exploring it and never picked it up again. I doubt my outcomes in doing a successful expat-ing would have been different though.

If you can make expatriation a reality somehow, I would recommend it.
 

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Iv'e actually experimented with talking to girls from different countries and I do agree that just because you're unsuccessful in one place, doesn't mean you can't be successful in other places. You can be a great painter but if you live in a place that doesn't need painters, you're out of luck, you would need to go to a place where painters are liked or in demand. It's the same concept with dating; go where you are liked or in demand.
 

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Small town, America is where you want to be.

Towns of less than 30,000 people, at least 30 minutes outside the city.
 

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On the topic of talking to women in different countries, The Philippines is a good choice for white men. BUT The Philippines isn't for everyone;.

Filipinos tend to speak really good English. The language barrier won't be a problem. They also tend to be Christian and quite religious. Their country is a lot more conservative compared to countries in the west; girls there won't typically wear bikinis on the beach as they believe it's too revealing (this is especially true in the provinces) and the hookup culture, while it's a thing, it's not as common and not as openly accepted.

I would only recommend The Philippines as a potential spot to meet girls if you're looking for a long term relationship and are willing to date conservative Christian girls where the expectation is to wait until marriage (or at least until you are in an exclusive relationship) to have sex. I wouldn't recommend The Philippines if you're just looking to get your **** wet and hookup.
 

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Might just be where you live. I know I got hotter girls when I lived on the west coast
 

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Small town, America is where you want to be.

Towns of less than 30,000 people, at least 30 minutes outside the city.
Yeah if you want to date nothing but single moms. They’re all over small town America.
 
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Your pessimism is off the charts.
It’s true though. You find single moms galore in small town America. In bigger cities you find career women who wait until the last possible second to have kids.
 

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You can do very well in south america if you have a tinder profile in english. Just be aware that they will likely be very interested in more than just you. You have a golden ticket and should keep this in mind at all times.

That said, I wouldn't move to south america until they take care of their problems, they have bad immigration problems and most of the countries are going full retard with socialist crap.

Moving overseas is extremely difficult to do legally unless you have some kind of in via ancestry, money or excellent skills. Italy and spain have good options for citizenship via ascendance. Also, most westernized countries are compromised with feminist or socialist crap. Others like russia are viable, but you better be young and be able to learn the language no matter where you go.
 

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On the topic of talking to women in different countries, The Philippines is a good choice for white men. BUT The Philippines isn't for everyone;.

Filipinos tend to speak really good English. The language barrier won't be a problem. They also tend to be Christian and quite religious. Their country is a lot more conservative compared to countries in the west; girls there won't typically wear bikinis on the beach as they believe it's too revealing (this is especially true in the provinces) and the hookup culture, while it's a thing, it's not as common and not as openly accepted.

I would only recommend The Philippines as a potential spot to meet girls if you're looking for a long term relationship and are willing to date conservative Christian girls where the expectation is to wait until marriage (or at least until you are in an exclusive relationship) to have sex. I wouldn't recommend The Philippines if you're just looking to get your **** wet and hookup.
You are wrong the PH is one of the easiest places to meet girls for fun.
 

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150k-200k metro area size is decent IF you have the right demographics, which you don't. While I don't recommend any areas of less than 100k population, 150k-200k is the minimum to be large enough to have some selection.

Expatriating from the United States to another nation is difficult. I looked into a South American expatriation in the late 2000s but I was having issues navigating the whole work authorization thing. Once Bear Stearns and Lehman collapsed and the economy really went bad, I stopped exploring it and never picked it up again. I doubt my outcomes in doing a successful expat-ing would have been different though.

If you can make expatriation a reality somehow, I would recommend it.
Correct!! My county is about 250k and that doesn't include snowbirds. The media age for my county is 57, YES 57 years old! The county to my north is 56 years old median age and the county to my south is 50 for median age. Oldest region of FL. See the problem?

Ironic, very few decent women on OLD around here for obvious reasons. But if I message women on OLD closer to the Tampa region I actually get more replies and some want to meet up too and they're better looking too. From what I've seen there are tons more women due to the median age is 20 years younger in that area. So they're likely getting less bombarded by guys on OLD. Same with over on the East Coast. Personality is just totally different and they're less flakey.
 

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What would a thread on SS be without a @biggoal online dating reference?
 

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I met my girlfriend about an hour and a half out of St Louis in what most people would call the sticks, but from experience, women from the rural areas are much friendlier and less stuck up and usually share my political beliefs more than women from the city.
 

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I met my girlfriend about an hour and a half out of St Louis in what most people would call the sticks, but from experience, women from the rural areas are much friendlier and less stuck up and usually share my political beliefs more than women from the city.
It's not surprising that women in rural areas are friendlier.

Yeah if you want to date nothing but single moms. They’re all over small town America.
If the population is your area is less than 100k, you'd better be in a secure, long term relationship by 25. There's not a good selection of singles. As a percentage of the population, I would think smaller areas would have more single moms. There are plenty of single moms in major metropolitan areas but also plenty of childless women, especially childless career women. Childless career women don't tend to live in small towns.
 
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