“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bigpapa

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I know. but every guy she would target is also a target.

I get it, just rethinking it because the default way of thinking on it makes men as beggers or powerless. While the truth is that she is not having any sex without a man included.

The girl picking any guy is imaginary. It's very much the opposite, her options in her view are small numbers, very small numbers. While men see every woman as an option. It's like a web ui with a click box that doesn't work. She can't pick that one because it's broken. The ones she sees working are only a few. She does not have unlimited options, in fact, she is desperately searching for a good option.

She is flooded by men, but not with options. Her options are much smaller number than men's options. Men see every woman as an option (albeit they might get rejected). The women we are talking about do not get rejected often, but they also don't consider most of the men as an option. Only we men see the other men as an option for her. Her options are far less than we have.

In fact, she will be very lucky if we are an option for her.
ye , but then it interferes male simping

most men when it comes to women , become very very stupid , and thus why you have this show that it is happening

most men have wives and gf bellow their smv , which creates a lot of competition on the middle and lower echelon

that I would say is the root cause

being an average guy as an example , you also have to compete with guys above your smv , who most of the times will win the courtship , ofc unless they are not complete idiots
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The problem why men outnumber women in dating is because of the lack of decent women! So here in FL if only 15 percent of the women under 50 are attractive that doesn't leave you with a large pool to choose.

Us men are more visual creatures. While a woman will date an much older guy if he has money for example. Like on here most men won't go for a fat woman. But I notice fat men with decent chicks when I'm out and about in public.

So you have most men chasing about 20 percent of the single women in the market place.

30 years ago for example you had a lot less fat women and more to go around for everyone.

So if only 20 percent of the women are hot that leaves a very small selection to pick from.

It's simply a numbers game. There just isn't a huge pool of non fat, non tatted women to choose from.
 

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So you have most men chasing about 20 percent of the single women in the market place.

30 years ago for example you had a lot less fat women and more to go around for everyone.

So if only 20 percent of the women are hot that leaves a very small selection to pick from.

It's simply a numbers game. There just isn't a huge pool of non fat, non tatted women to choose from.
So you have most women chasing about 20 percent of the men in the market place.

30 years ago for example you had a lot fewer crappy men and more good ones to go around for everyone.

So if only 20 percent of the men are desirable that leaves a very small selection to pick from and of those many are already taken.

It's simply a numbers game. There just isn't a huge pool of non fat, non tatted, not broke, not scared, not lazy men to choose from.
 

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So you have most women chasing about 20 percent of the men in the market place.

30 years ago for example you had a lot fewer crappy men and more good ones to go around for everyone.

So if only 20 percent of the men are desirable that leaves a very small selection to pick from and of those many are already taken.

It's simply a numbers game. There just isn't a huge pool of non fat, non tatted, not broke, not scared, not lazy men to choose from.
Men overall are less fat though and generally have better jobs than women. Of course men are heavier now too but nowhere near to the extent women are. Women are far more out of shape as a whole compared to men.
 
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