Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is an important point. Picking up women is a subsection of the red pill Manosphere. The Manosphere goes beyond getting laid and romantic relationships. Some guys have solely focus on pickup like Mystery, Neil Strauss, Torero, and Krauser. Roosh was originally a pickup artist, then moved into more cultural topics in addition to women for 3-5 years, then had the religious conversion. Someone like Caleb Jones has always been a combination of romance and lifestyle topics.
This is a problem. I have a difficult time watching infields on YouTube because I never know which ones are real and which ones are staged.
Torero's daygame model was better for the streets/walking paths/hiking paths than Roosh's indirect models from "Day Bang". Roosh's indirect models are better for retail venues (grocery stores, book stores, malls, coffee shops)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
There was a time back in the 'glory days' of PUA when it was more popular where it seems that everyone got exposed to be faking infields lol. There was Tom Torerro, Daniel Blake, Justin Wayne and a few others whose names escape me. You have to wonder why people who no doubt DO know all of teh PUA theory and psychology there is to know have to resort to using actresses!
Don't forget the Christian side, such as the RPC (Red Pill Christians) on both YouTube and Reddit. They believe in abstinence before marriage yet they fully believe in the RP realities of male and female nature, feminism, male self-improvement, and all the other RP concepts. Many forget that the Christian community was the first group that the feminist movement had in their cross-hairs (1970's-1980's). You just don't hear as much about it now because the Christian have become such a social minority.
Is black pill also considered part of the Manosphere? I'm observing more black pill lately.