“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Is this a rejection or what?
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Red flag after red flag. Nexttttt.
IL way too low and would be a major headache to dare. Walk away.
Imo it does not matter what she says, girl talk trash all the time and will still just follow their feelings. You can check if she really wants to keep meeting you and when she does, get close, look into her eyes, pull her a bit closer and you will see if she wants to kiss/f*ck you, that's what I'd do.
It’s funny how they’re too damaged for Johnny Normal but suddenly “fixed” for Chad and ready to relationship it up ASAP!
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even with they in relationship with non chad they always had occasional have their back blown by chads. thats a fact for most wahmen.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
This is very interesting, my question to this and to add to OP's message. At what point is it right for a man to be direct with a woman? I keep hearing advices to be direct, and that women love a man when he is direct and decisive. Well, OP was very direct with her and letting her know what he wants. But it still didnt play in her favor.
Are there certain times when we shouldnt be direct with them? Like bringing up exclusivity? Can being direct with women be a double-edged sword? Seems that way
But it still didnt play in his** favor
It didn’t but what it did do is save me time I would have wasted on someone who wasn’t truly interested. Now I can go ask out the 24 yr old receptionist I’ve flirted with and who’s flirted back a few times at the dealership where I get my truck serviced. The other one has been blocked and deleted, if she complains to our friends oh fvcking well.
The foundation is that she is truly interested, you don't need to think about this, when she isn't. If she is, I usually play it back and forth, show interest, then get distanced and let her come to you, be dominant, be caring, be distanced, be affectionate, it's just a game, you make one step, she makes her's etc. If she is not willing to make her steps towards you, you leave, but I'd not leave like Robert did, when I leave, I leave in lighthearted, unaffected way, this way you have a chance (not a guarantee) that she changes her mind, considers you as valuable and starts making steps towards you. If she does, you might be in the game again but make sure that you are playing the real game and not this friend zone thing^^
She wasn’t too busy to start dating me but suddenly she’s busy and needs to focus on her career, oh and she forgot to mention she’s been suffering from depression for years apparently and that flared up again. Must be bad timing, I’m sure it’s all legit on her part. This is why she got blocked, she couldn’t be honest with me and chose to give a vague bunch of lies.
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Yeah, she's so FOS. I have no patience for this kind of nonsense.
Neither do I. If you can’t be honest with me when you reject me and give me that level of respect then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t care how many mutual friends we share or how long we’ve known each other.
Anything but a yes or compliance is a no.
All the blah blah blah reason blah blah doesn't amount to anything but the same result. She is rejecting.
Sounds like she was seeking validation.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It’s really that simple. I’ve never had a girl say “maybe” and end up being my girlfriend. All that other stuff she said was made up bs and dancing around the truth. That’s what was a gut punch. I deserved an honest answer and she refused to give me one. That’s why I ghosted and blocked her. I’m too old for that crap.
If she gets put out by you ghosting her and she plays the victim all you need to say to your friends is this :
" i lost interest. I stop pursuing her. Would any of you pursue someone you were no longer interested in? No."
If they are your friends they will understand.
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Forget whether this is a rejection or not. She's damaged to some extend, and at least was honest about it, she is doing you a favor by making sure you don't get any ideas.
She is a FWB at best.
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Luckily I’m friends with all the guys and have been for years, she’s friends with a lot of their girlfriends and wives. My guy friends know who I am and if she tries to play the “oh he ghosted me so he only wanted sex, woe is me” they’ll know she’s full of crap. They knew her and I were sorta friends for a few years and always kinda had a thing for each other, we just never tried to date. That’s why this rejection stings a lot, it was a sure thing where there was always sexual tension between us and we finally took that step and now she gives me some canned bs answer.
She can go be Chad’s side piece. I don’t want anything to do with her. Let her continue to be damaged for all I care. She made all those choices in her life that caused her to be damaged, she needs to look in the mirror if she wants to find the real problem behind her troubles.