So CGA thinks that pay for play/ prostitution is the wave of the future. The whole game and charisma era is over. I tend to agree with him. Women have largely monetized their sexuality. Running game is obsolete for the most part.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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So CGA thinks that pay for play/ prostitution is the wave of the future. The whole game and charisma era is over. I tend to agree with him. Women have largely monetized their sexuality. Running game is obsolete for the most part.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lolol i hope it is. I will buy the Gordita Latina 3000
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Lol in most situations of marriage this was the case, if you didn't provide cyaaa
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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There's no way I'll watch a 2 hour video, but I will comment on what you wrote.
Pay for play/ prostitution has been a thing since the dawn of mankind, I bet it happened before currency was even a concept. It's nothing new, it has been there for a long time, it's here now and will be there into the unforeseeable future. Parallel to this there has also been "game" or in other words trading your personality for companionship and sex.
It should come as no surprise to anyone that nothing is free. Prostitution is the exchange of only material goods for sex and just sex. In a normal relationship we get sex and companionship for providing more than just material value where the emphasis is on the immaterial. We could stretch the definition of prostitution to encompass anything that isn't sex for literally nothing, but by such a definition prostitution has always been the norm and we lose the distinction that prostitution is sex in exchange for material goods only.
If there are counterpoints to this voiced in the video, feel free to write it for me, I don't have the time to sit through watching it.
Pay for play/ prostitution has been a thing since the dawn of mankind, I bet it happened before currency was even a concept. It's nothing new, it has been there for a long time, it's here now and will be there into the unforeseeable future. Parallel to this there has also been "game" or in other words trading your personality for companionship and sex.
It should come as no surprise to anyone that nothing is free. Prostitution is the exchange of only material goods for sex and just sex. In a normal relationship we get sex and companionship for providing more than just material value where the emphasis is on the immaterial. We could stretch the definition of prostitution to encompass anything that isn't sex for literally nothing, but by such a definition prostitution has always been the norm and we lose the distinction that prostitution is sex in exchange for material goods only.
If there are counterpoints to this voiced in the video, feel free to write it for me, I don't have the time to sit through watching it.
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I'm not going to watch a 2 hour video, but a very obvious counterpoint is that there are indeed many, many things that are free for women.
Serenity
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Only because so many men are cheap, thankfully women aren't that interested in cheap men. So yeah, it's free, but mostly undesirable.
A lot of women usually get knocked up by broke men and then so looking for men with money to help raise their kid(s).
Serenity
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Yup, that's how cheap men are. Not only free, but bleeding money, being of negative value. Being as undesirable as a man can be.
To be clear, the man himself is undesirable in this case, his material value weighs up for his negative immaterial value. Basically the money he provides is just enough to tolerate how disgusting she finds him.
That's why I will always say that flaunting money is the worst idea ever to win over a woman. If she thinks you have little to nothing of material value to offer and she still desires you then you may keep her around for a very long time.
Men generally seem to offer flowers, chocolate, expensive dinners, things, rings and whatever else can be bought for money. Thinking that women appreciate the person giving them things of material value like men would, but they don't because they're women, not men. They appreciate the material things, but not the man providing it. A woman will only ever appreciate a man for the immaterial things he provides and not all women cares about that to begin with.
Women with kids warrants extra skepticism, their main priority is to provide for the child. If they are unable to adequately do so by themselves then most likely you as a man are there to provide for her so she can provide for the child.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Very wise words. I never had much money. So all the puzzy I stumbled into was because of me. But this gets harder to do as you age and lose your looks. Past a certain age its all what you can bring financially.
AttackFormation
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That will be the second sexual revolution.
Hundreds of years in the future, companion robots will basically function autonomously like a normal human so you can live with them fully. The difference is theyll be engineered to lack the negative traits humans have, so there wont be infidelity, family breakup, personality disorder or mental illness. Theyll have pleasant personalities, a custom appearance, and an engineered fondness for you personally - not so much that it feels unrealistic, it will be calibrated to be natural. If you want kids then dna sequences will be generated to match your companion bot's appearance, which is then mixed with your own, and the resulting dna will be grown into your shared children in artificial wombs.
The men of that future will look back at us and "dating" like we look back at the pre-modern era and their "medicine": fumbling around, doing more harm than good, before the scientific, reliable process could be developed.
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Or this increasingly unstable looking thing called civilisation collapse we're running around hunting rats and chewing weeds and abducting woman and dragging them back to our parking building caves. Lot of concrete in a parking building Roman concrete is still around 2000 years later
I would agree only if the woman wants to make it legal.
But if a man if in good shape financially and meets a hot woman and wants to f her I would say throw the bucks down, dinner, movie, whatever. Got to use what use you have, some guys don’t have game, height, best looks, but have cash. I would say go for it.
But if the woman want to make it legal, marriage / cohabiting or whatever, the man tells her they start from 0 and her cash out value is 0.
Haha bro you just might be right. Trippy thought
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
I have never done any of the above for a woman not even my 4 year LTR she would be lucky if i bought her a bottle of a wine once a month
Guess what by not engaging in them transactional relationship dynamics i quickly weed out gold diggers and narcissistic women and find quality ones faster
Shock horror The right woman doesn't need to know how much money you have or what you can provide for her
She literally just needs to be attracted to you and for you to be able to dominate both your world and hers
Problem is a huge proportion of men are so weak and pathetic these days they would rather try and "buy" her affection
But make no mistake there will ALWAYS be demand for a man that can make her pu$$y tingle without using money
ALWAYS
Blacksheep
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There is some really sexy sex dolls out there... I wanna try it someday for sure! haha
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
And money and status boyfriends will be cheated with that guy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
They are encouraged to run crazy. Fvck what a man thinks. If she's not married she's single. They don't care how their actions will effect their man.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's the new way. The old way gets taken advantage of and used.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.