ThisIsSparta
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Relax.... its just a joke.... dont get stressed out over it.It looks like its written by a shortcel. It's like it weighs too heavily on height and then income. I should have no problems getting a girl because I've got a decent height according to that scale, all things being equal. Does not account for face or anything else.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She might be pulling money now but it will only be for a very short while, then it come to a crashing stop. You have no idea how many broke single moms I come across. And I mean broke.Women aren't that delusional, you might just not know what some men will do to get with them. I personally know a 36 year-old landwhale with 3 kids with a sugar daddy that recently just casually gave her $5000 pocket money.
Yeah, I'm in the .27% odds, even when widening the age range to +/- five years. I guess that means I'm a real catch? Not according to OLD, heh...Fun to play with but I just don’t think it is real. If I put myself in, it says that only 0.041% of men are like me. That’s hard to believe but it sure would be interesting to know the actual number.
I'm guessing it isn't realistic at all. But interesting.I have no idea how realistic this is but it is hysterical.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
should be a joke to take a piss on woman, with maybe some data, it was funny, don't know why someone would take this seriousI'm guessing it isn't realistic at all. But interesting.
Well, the OP did say it looked legit. Could have been sarcasm.it was funny, don't know why someone would take this serious
Then I decided to start picking race.Probability
According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 40 meets your standards is
3.1%
Delusion score
3/5
Aspiring cat lady
Black: ouch.According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 40 meets your standards is
2.5%
that is 4.4% of all white men in that age range
Asian: I don't even have to post that one. The percentage was even lower. I can use this tool all day to check different configurations. But let me see if I can get something really high.According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 40 meets your standards is
0.23%
that is 1.8% of all black men in that age range
Obviously, when you include all ages, the stats go up, but what I found is that the moment I lowered it to 25K, the number went up hard. In summary, none of this really means anything, but I was simply curious of the extreme data points of the survey.According to statistical data, the probability a guy of the U.S. male population ages 20 to 85 meets your standards is
68.6%
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I know of a lot of guys right now that seem to have no ambitions career-wise or financially, especially in contrast to the females. Seems like women today are more motivated for success than men. I have no idea if that is statistically true overall, it probably isn't. It's just anecdotal from what I'm seeing going on around me.Obviously, when you include all ages, the stats go up, but what I found is that the moment I lowered it to 25K, the number went up hard.
Ikr according to this im in the top percentile for my age group even though im 5'9.It looks like its written by a shortcel. It's like it weighs too heavily on height and then income. I should have no problems getting a girl because I've got a decent height according to that scale, all things being equal. Does not account for face or anything else.