"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sucralose as a sugar substitute

BPH

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Recently discovered these C4 energy drinks and I love them. They taste great, zero calories, zero sugar, and 200mg of caffeine.

I'm a little curious because I started reading the ingredients looking for a downside and saw sucralose as a sugar substitute. I've been told that this stuff isn't easily processed by your body because it isn't recognized, but also seeing more information from people saying that this has been disproven multiple times and is much healthier than standard sugar.

I've tried to ask this on Reddit a few times but it keeps getting moderated for being too specific, basically the mods are a bunch of ****s over there. So I was wondering if any informed individuals could tell me how this substance compares to sugar from a health standpoint, and if they're familiar with the drinks, whether there's any downside to these.

Here's the label:

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lookatu

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One of my kid's friend's father works at an artificial sweetener company as an engineer. I talked to him and he even cautioned me on using artificial sweeteners and said that he would never take it. Upon doing further research, I've found people that were obese haven't lost any weight from drinking diet drinks with these artificial sweeteners.

Now natural sweetener alternatives like Stevia seem to be a more healthy alternative to sugar.

Me personally, I'd rather go with natural substitutes: Agave, honey, maple syrup, molasses, coconut sugar, stevia, etc.

The biggest thing is to stay away from High Fructose Corn Syrup. That's the worst you can do for your health.
 

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There are tons of artificial sweeter. sucralose isn't the best one.

I've been using powered erythritol for a while, but only when I add it myself, not in snacks or drinks.

Two concerns are now much it raises your blood sugar, and how much it increases your appetite.

Even if there's zero calories, if it's too sweet (like sucralose) it will have some effect due to the sweetness that will make you more hungrier.

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jor-El

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Even "natural" sugar is still sugar.Your body dosent know or care that the alt "healthy" sugar you are consuming is vegan and mined by virgin nuns from a cave in the Himalayas...sugar is sugar is sugar and is treated the same way by the liver.Best thing in my view you can do is wean yourself off it,or have in small amounts. same with artifical sweetners.I tell ya,after a while of low/no sugar,everything you had before and thought nothing off tastes super sweet and sickly
 
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