"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dating a Nightshift Nurse

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's a shame how much nurses have deteoriated over time. They used to be sweet and feminine. In the Boomer generation, they were decent choices. Even in Gen X, they were defensible. Millennial era nurses are not good.

Night shift nurses have always been a difficult option for men working conventional day shifts.
 

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Dear SW,
If you had a "Sweet and Feminine" daughter would you want her to be a Nurse?..If she had small delicate hands,one of her jobs might be to shove those little Molly Dookers up elderly Mens Bums to check out their prostates or get sent down the Morgue to plug up and prepare the Dead for burial...When theres a Pandemic like Covid, or a Health scare like early days of AIDS,who's up the front line dying like Flies?...That's forgetting the terrible abuse they suffer from Druggos and Drunken No-Hopers on a regular basis...They have their "Favourites",maybe little Old Ladies like their Mum,if they have a terminal situation in a major organ there will be terrible pain,and sometimes she might have to inflict it...heart wrenching!...It's an awful,though necessary job and calls for Women who are both Emotionally and Physically tough,God Bless Them.
 
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Don’t date her, I used to work nights in a hospital and while sex with nurses is fun they are all *****s. Some engaged some dating others having sex with married doctors. This women are bottom of the barrel relationship wise.

None are ever LTR.

I once had a nurse blow me at work then later found out she had sex with a doctor that same night. Next day I ****ed her and that night she had the doctor eat her out while all my semen was still inside her.

She told me this later it was a wake up call to how much women can be *****s. After that I stayed away from anyone in the medical profession and distrust them all now made me jaded.
Dumpster fire. While I am sure some maybe good generally, if you deal with death and morbid **** you are red pilled in ways screaming hypergamy won't get.

They're desensitized to the qualities necessary for a family and kids. Shift work is not ideal for kids nor wife.

Op should plate her. Note there's hotter younger ones graduating like clock work. Problem is that the women are left leaning feminist girl boss and all qualities contrary to the ideal a man wants. Not to mention ran through.
 

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It's a shame how much nurses have deteoriated over time. They used to be sweet and feminine. In the Boomer generation, they were decent choices. Even in Gen X, they were defensible. Millennial era nurses are not good.

Night shift nurses have always been a difficult option for men working conventional day shifts.
No cap. Attractive and young but you got girls who at peak smv 18-23 looking like she's in her epiphany phase. WHY?

BECAUSE ran through. Party girl. Bar star. Fast girl life and her value us squandered on Netflix and chill. Most are ran through by married cops or firemen and MEDICS.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone have experience? I'd like to hear your thoughts, pros/cons, etc.
Worked at 2 hospitals..bat**** crazy but demons in the sack..have fun but know when to cut bait
GO GETEM CHAMP
 

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I have not dated a night shift nurse. If you're a regular day shift, white collar office worker, I can imagine that it would be challenging to line up schedules with a night shift nurse.



My cousin was married to a nurse who likely monkey branched him. They had 2 kids together and our family strongly suspects that she was having an affair with a doctor at the hospital. She was late 30s and a mom of 2 kids. The divorce was filed for about 6 months before the pandemic started and she's already introduced the kids to a new man, which might be a hospital doctor or some other dude.

I guess my cousin is an example of "Do not get serious with a nurse".

Prior to ~1990, nurses used to have a good reputation of being a paragon of femininity.
What this man said
 

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biggest s*uts going, emotionally dead, drained and jaded in theyre 30s. every single one.

also she approached you, so shes already lost femininity, she wants to plate you
 

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biggest s*uts going, emotionally dead, drained and jaded in theyre 30s. every single one.

also she approached you, so shes already lost femininity, she wants to plate you
That is 100% the vibe I've gotten from her. We've only been able to meet up once at a local bar she used to work at. She had coworkers stopping by alot to say hello. Mainly guys. Perhaps it was a **** test however I didn't pursue that night and now pretty much in a holding pattern there while talking to other women.
 

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Rotation. Just know it has a short shelf life. Act accordingly. #nextset after beating it rotten.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear Vantage Point,
If you think there are too many LTR's out there,why enter into the dangerous state of Marriage where your life is not your own and the State makes sure you do things their way...No unless you want Children serial LTR's with Plates on the side are a safer option.
 

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Dear Vantage Point,
If you think there are too many LTR's out there,why enter into the dangerous state of Marriage where your life is not your own and the State makes sure you do things their way...No unless you want Children serial LTR's with Plates on the side are a safer option.
You Marry to be successful. Put it this way in China it is understood and still not legal for 3 children. (2)Marriage for American women is a business aspect. (3) ever meet an Italian or German woman? Clean STD free experience. That’s my argument...
 

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Yeaa but you have to pop the question this day and age... Too many ltr relationships out there
Pop what questions ? You don't marry ***** otherwise you end up on YouTube yelling hypergamy and red pill rants. #manyellsatcloud
 

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Anyone have experience? I'd like to hear your thoughts, pros/cons, etc.
one thing i have always noticed with nurses is they seldom make you wear a condom. I always found that odd since they work in the medical field so i'd think they would be more cautious than average women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pop what questions ? You don't marry ***** otherwise you end up on YouTube yelling hypergamy and red pill rants. #manyellsatcloud
Naw man you have to close the deal. Have you heard about an option play. Young girls nowadays use option play. You renegotiate and start the LTR. It depends how long you plan to live together. Always have a plan... #tbt
 

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one thing i have always noticed with nurses is they seldom make you wear a condom. I always found that odd since they work in the medical field so i'd think they would be more cautious than average women.
At the risk of sounding hippie, similar to military or law enforcement, nurses are in the trenches switched off on the regular. take a hospice nurse end of life care. there's a savage place she has to get to in order to get by day to day. Ringing her bell vs the poor religious girl in the mud Hutt in South East Asia has a different outcome.

I am curious what the outcome is for Op? I'm convinced that this ends in train wreck and drama lulz. strap up playboy. no condom means she's loose. not her first rodeo.
 
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