MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I like her shoes.
I guess it's like Red's line in "The Shawshank Redemption" about Andy walking around with new, polished shoes before his breakout.I like her shoes.
Modern Man Advice
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I've got the Firefox "Bypass Paywalls" add-on, and it works so well, I don't even realize it.I like the paywall even better.
It's a reason why people like this is called white trash, but she is also a perfect example of bad life choices.I don't think I've seen a chick hit the wall at 51 any worse than this
Never take dead-end jobs like working in call-center unless it is for short period, (e.g. want to learn/improve the skillset that they offer through the job like sales/customer service) or you actually own the call center yourself. Taking the quick and easy route of the least resistance (Hint... It's the hard life route in reality), will lead you nowhere literally. She did this to herself and now she's got what she deserves.The setbacks that led to Niffenegger’s life outside — a word she prefers to “homeless,” which she can’t bring herself to say — started in early 2019, when she lost her job at a call center. She tried to forestall financial disaster with credit cards, applying for two that hit her with $89 in fees for every $300 she charged. She ran up debts of nearly $1,000 buying groceries, and pretty soon she couldn’t make the payments. “My credit just exploded and went down to nothing,” she says.
I was left homeless by a certain weather event in the 00sFew women end up homeless. Many women can exchange their vaginas for rent.
I think it is bad that people end up living on a permanent basis in extended stay hotels, which should only be used at most for 2-3 month stays in a city. Maybe something like an extended work project. I think the article brought up some really good points about housing.