"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I noticed since I quit jogging outside I have started to get a runny nose

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I started the Wim Hof Method last january. Been pretty consistent since then about the cold showers. The cold showers also basically made me immune to the rain even if it was slightly cool or cold weather outside. So I would run about every other day. I would notice a feeling in my throat from the fresh air which we all know if we live in cooler climates, but never any cold symptoms. Now I've quit the running because I noticed that my knees would feel a bit whacked from the running, even though I try to land on the balls of my feet.

Since recently I have had a runny nose and slightly stuffed up nasal cavity, basically chronically, whereas I didnt have it before while doing cold showers and running around in the rain... What a damn shame. I don't want to have screwy knees when I am older but I enjoy the cardio so I think I will reincorporate them anyway and perhaps take a jumprope to skip around a bit instead.

Ironic. Cold showers and running outside do make a difference! Good for your blood flow, especially noticable in the face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whatever you are impacting against makes such a huge difference over time, like over the course of a couple months you will notice the difference in switching from pavement to a track, pavement is bad, people who run on the sidewalk are just asking for chronic pain.

Head to a local highschool or college, most have some kind of out door track, even the grass is a lot better than the pavement.

I've played soccer since I was 5, football, rugby, I've done more running in the first 20 years of my life than most will do in their whole life I imagine, my family all have bad knees, mine are still good, 31, no pain, also wasn't running when overweight, another factor.

Also, stairs will destroy your knees, they are very hard on them, elevator/escalator is your friend
 

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I started the Wim Hof Method last january. Been pretty consistent since then about the cold showers. The cold showers also basically made me immune to the rain even if it was slightly cool or cold weather outside. So I would run about every other day. I would notice a feeling in my throat from the fresh air which we all know if we live in cooler climates, but never any cold symptoms. Now I've quit the running because I noticed that my knees would feel a bit whacked from the running, even though I try to land on the balls of my feet.

Since recently I have had a runny nose and slightly stuffed up nasal cavity, basically chronically, whereas I didnt have it before while doing cold showers and running around in the rain... What a damn shame. I don't want to have screwy knees when I am older but I enjoy the cardio so I think I will reincorporate them anyway and perhaps take a jumprope to skip around a bit instead.

Ironic. Cold showers and running outside do make a difference! Good for your blood flow, especially noticable in the face.

Where do you live? I have never suffered from
Seasonal allergies but this year has killed me. I have two cars and both are black... I have to wash the pollen off them every 3 days or they literally look yellow. My nose has been a mess since April.
 

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Where do you live? I have never suffered from
Seasonal allergies but this year has killed me. I have two cars and both are black... I have to wash the pollen off them every 3 days or they literally look yellow. My nose has been a mess since April.
You are right, come to think of it.

My eyes were also a bit itchy when I woke up. I live in Amsterdam, in the Netherlands.
Whatever you are impacting against makes such a huge difference over time, like over the course of a couple months you will notice the difference in switching from pavement to a track, pavement is bad, people who run on the sidewalk are just asking for chronic pain.

Head to a local highschool or college, most have some kind of out door track, even the grass is a lot better than the pavement.

I've played soccer since I was 5, football, rugby, I've done more running in the first 20 years of my life than most will do in their whole life I imagine, my family all have bad knees, mine are still good, 31, no pain, also wasn't running when overweight, another factor.

Also, stairs will destroy your knees, they are very hard on them, elevator/escalator is your friend
I'll see if I can find a race track somewhere I can use...
 

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Running is hard on your joints. And not really good for you long-term.

Basically all long distance runners lose muscle and gain fat. Stanford did an 8 year meta-study of long distance runners with over 16K in the study.

Every.
Single.
One.

Lost muscle and gained fat. Probably the worst thing you can do long term for your metabolism and your hormonal profile.

You want cardio? Incorporate weight lifting with very little rest between sets. It will have your heart rate up more than running and the short intense bursts of activity(30 minutes or less) will give you a much better hormonal profile and will help gain muscle and lose fat.

Skinny fat definitely is NOT where it is at.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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